Quite awhile ago I was very homophobic person. I was raised in the US but now I am back home in Korea and coming back to a culture which really is biased just made me realize how ignorant I was back than. I had a friend who was my tennis buddy, and after a year or two he told me he had these sexual fantasies about man. Of course being a homophobe that I was called him a faggot (which now i am not proud of considering the fact that I am in a relationship with a bisexual person ) and tried to talk him out of his urges to come out of his closet. I still remember him on that day when he told his parents. It must have taken enormous amount of courage for him to do that especially without my support. That was probably the last day I talked to him. I told him off when he wanted to hug me good bye after his big announcement. It's been years since I talk to him and I don't have his e-mail address nor his phone number. I really want to ask him for my forgiveness but have no way of contacting him. This has recently bothered me a lot and need to make peace with it. Any advises on how I can do this? (sorry if this is not the place to post this...)
I'm glad you've changed your ways. I'd try myspace, googling his name, or even calling his parents to ask where he is.
