Hey there, Been browsing this board for a little while and need a little bit of advice. I'm a 22 year old virgin with no sexual experience to talk of and despite being attracted and very much interested in women, I have the urge to be with a guy atleast once. I've found someone that I can have no strings attached sex with and i'm really tempted to go ahead with it, but i'm a bit concerned about how I may feel afterwards. I don't find men to be sexually attractive like I do with women, but there's some degree of lust there and it's something i'd like to try.... Any advice to offer?
I say get it out of your system now while you're unattached. I've had guys tell me they've been dying to find out what it's like, but are attached now and can't experiment. Do it now while you can. If you don't like it, chalk it up to something that's just not for you, but you'll know without a doubt. And if you do like it, you may like the doors it opens for you.
yeah, definitely do it now. Years down the line, you don't want to be in a serious relationship with a women and still have this desire. And I wouldn't worry about how you might feel after having sex with a guy....you'll either decide to try it again or rule out men entirely. Unless, of course, the person you're having sex with is a guy friend....then you're going to have to worry about your friendship afterwards.
i think that's cool, go for it! feelings of repressed curiosity and angst have more potentially damaging repercussions than having meaningless physical intimacy of someone of the same sex... hope this helps...
I am not a virgin but I really understand the urges that you have. I do envy you due to fact I am currently in a relationship and cannot experiment. My advise is do it now before it's too late....
