god i need a boyfriend

Hehe indeed, a really young Ozzy. I bet lots of ladies find him cute though, before he put the eyeliner and stuff on probably.

 

omg thats the guy from t.v. what happened to him was he like ina crash or something??

 

mature means to me = someone who wantto get to know me before sex, someone who can make me laugh, someone who doesnt get mad at me when i say stupid things. someone who knows when i just want to be heard , or held.

 

And why do you associate the above qualities with older men?

 

hunny its called age! drugs alcohol. Try dating someone around your own age. Seriously guys 2-5 years older and whom are in college do not want to settle for a gf. They want boyz time and just don't care 'bout girls period. Being mature is being immature . Partying and partying. Just because your going to be 18, doesn't mean your "Mature" enough to seek "older" men.


Sure i was once 20 and got let down by a 26 yrs old man because he thought i was 15. he was a high school teacher and i showed him my visa card and i showed him my other id , but what worried him was his career. So he drove away and left me to walk home. 2 days later he called me back to tell me he wanted to go on the date, i rejected him. I still have a baby face and i still get id. I married someone 10 years older than me but i'm way more mature than when i was 20. Just don't settle for older men because "some" older men just don't know what the heck they want.

 

Yeah, you deffently shouldent get down on yourself for your looks, because...well, its just not true. If you clam up around new people, join some clubs or take a class, its a great way to meet new people and not have to initiate forced conversation or anything. Plus you have a roomfull of people with similar interests.

 

i think cute is an understatement.

Im sure you can find a bf if you look for one. Go out there, and flirt with some guys. If you come to Wisconsin I can hook you up with one of my friends

 

I'm a size zero and I occasionally eat at Mac Donands. Odds may suprise you. Must add I cannot actually finish a burger, makes me sick if I eat more then half of it, too full haha.

Either way; you'll find someone. Age means not a whole lot. When I was 15/16 I was with someone who was 20/21 and he was pretty awful in many many ways. Now I'm 17, 18 soon and with someone who is 19 right now and he's a lot more perfect. Age doesn't say that much, its about the personality.

 

Are you looking for validation that people are physically attracted to you or are you looking for someone who wants to get to know who you really are?

Look at your behavior (online and offline) and think about the type of person your attracting. Are you getting the kind of attention you want?

The more honest you are with yourself, and then with those around you, the more likely you will find what you need. Without that, you will be saying you want someone to get to know you but then posting pictures of your ass.

I wouldn't have taken the time to write this if I didn't care about you as a fellow human. Maybe I'm off base. Maybe not.

Take care,

T

 

Don't think that you need boyfriend so bad you don't need it you just think you need it just have fun and dont look for bf let him come to you and don't be so picky. That will make you suffer more.Have fun what is yours will come to you.

 

i think i found the perfect guy , just my luck its my bbfs boyfriend. hes cute funny and doesnt mind sharing.

 

Wow hon your pictures are truely gorgeous. I know it get lonely but you dont need a boyfriend. And the day you stop looking, something will come. life has a weird way of making that happen. But your only 17, enjoy your life while single. And I don't think you will ever meet a guy who likes the mall lol.

 

yep, completely agree with "lakeoffire", just enjoy beeing single. When you go shopping i'm sure you don't buy the first thing you see You don't need a boyfriend, or maybe to pay your bills and carry your bags when you go shopping.
And a lot of boys find the fact that a girl gets nervous when talking to someone they fancy just sweet, I know I do. So I'm happy to getting a little bit nervous when talking to an attractive girl too. I can only hope they find it sweet for a men to.

 

What the hell is your hurry?

I am afraid you are going to jump into a relationship for the wrong reasons. You will regret it.

Believe me I am the master of jumping into relationships for the wrong reasons.

 

hey dancing fairy, do you live in NorCal or SoCal?
I'm a seventeen year old male up here in the bay area
i'll trade pics if u wanna give me ur email and we can talk
much luv

 

youre beatiful, dont put yourself down. the search is a part of life.

 

Look, Im a guy. I am one of the weird romantic types. I thought that I needed a girl. But what I really needed was to be comfortable with myself. To love myself before I went to someone. If you cant be happy with being with yourself and only yourself then how do you expect someone to want to be with you. From Your picture you are a beautiful woman. Do this sometime. If you have one of those big 6 foot mirror, get naked and stand in front of it. Then look at yourself, really look at yourself, and see how beautiful you really are. Learn to love yourself and you will find the one that loves you. "If the person is ready the lover will come." Do it and keep me posted.
Jimmy

 

after spending the week with just me and judys boyfriend , i rewalize i love him , bummer hes my bbfs guy. me sad now

 

Girl free your self do what you want, but don't want something you can't have.

 

At least you can have sex with him. How many girls who have a crush on their best friends boyfriend can say that? :tongue: