Means what i do for having girlfriend,suppose i saw a girl first time & what i do to attract him towards me,what should be my body language?
There's no hard & fast rules. It varies from person to person. The best advice is the most obvious - simply be yourself. If you try to be anything other than that, then the girl is not really your girlfriend, but that of the character you are trying to portray. In fact, while so many teenage boys are trying to put on all the macho images to impress the girls, in reality that is their biggest mistake. Girls mature faster than boys & can usually see right through these petty pretences, but on the whole, they tend to be attracted to those who are not afraid to reveal their tender side - ones who will take notice of what she says, instead of perpetually going on about his achievements. Forget the grotty chat up lines - a simple smile says a lot more than words could ever do, and the body language you receive in return will let you know if you're heading in the right direction. There's no saying what this body language is going to be - it's an instinctive thing - if it's right, you'll know it.
I'm actually struggling with the same issues. Breaking the ice with some stranger is the hardest part for me. Being rejected sucks. Most times, it's because the girl already has a boyfriend. Now, my technique includes finding out if she has a BF before I ask her out on a date or try to get a phone number. One thing I can say for sure though is: Be yourself and DON"T be nervous. Tell yourself that you don't give a crap what happens. Remind yourself that you are a good person and that being rejected doesn't mean squat. If you make a mistake in a conversation, laugh at yourself out loud. Be relaxed and don't worry if you screw up. Also, i'm not saying that being a gigolo is the way to go, but there's a difference between being a man whore and simply talking to a lot of females. Talk to a lot, get a lot of phone numbers and then you are more likely to succeed. One way to get motivated is to remind yourself that your peers struggle with the same stuff. The more you try, and the more relaxed you are, the more impressed your friends will be. Good luck, man Big A Sounds KINKY to me! Unntss Unntss Unntss Unntss Unntss!! I'm just kidding. I know it was just a typo
no but i guess it helps, you just need to be warm and friendly really. and why is this in the masturbation forum?