Oh yeah and materialistic tools. If all someone does is talk how trashed they were over the weekend...you just lost all of my respect.
Vapidity, lack of depth, lack of ambition, lack of empathy, manipulative. I'm not going to deal with those things. I deserve better.
I can tolerate anyone on a personal level... but as far as wanting to be with someone, turn offs are as follows: Shallow, vain, unnatural, immature, weak minded, opinionated without/unwilling to backup, taller than me, lack of sex drive, unreachable standards, religious sheep, close minded, afraid of shadow, space cadet, cell phone junkie, antsy, violent, inconsiderate, loud, too quiet (my ears are bad, speak towards me and clearly pleaaaaase!), "the world owes me!", "the world is a terrible place, accept it!", "my vote doesn't count and neither does yours!", "things will never change", "spongebob is my kinda man" And number one - unwilling to change.
also negative/pessimistic, intolerant, stubborn, mean and just mean cause they feed off other people's torture, lack of sensibility, no sense of humor or a bad sense of humor, no creativity, square, conservative, right-wing, violent, poseur, a huge ego, manipulative, people who'll use you.... really there's a lot... sadly. But I try and stay away from people like that... I don't need my good vibes pollutted... sometimes you don't have a choice and then... the thing to do is not let it affect you, which is really hard, but possible with a bit of strenght.
Not only do you LOOK like Jay Leno... You do know Jay Leno was once Johnny Carson's flunky - I suggest you try to be the next in a long line of flunkies!
Yeah....lack of sex drive is a Big turn off. And I can't be with anyone that is boring in bed. I don't want to have sex the same way every day (or every week for that matter). I want to be able to push the boundaries in every room and on every wall in the house, on the lawn, the closet, the park, and everywhere else in between. If a girl isn't willing and able to do that with me, then I see no future.
Closed Mindedness. Playing Games - I hate games. Don't just expect some things to happen without first communicating. Those that see life as some kind of chess game - These people start relationships based on what that person can do for them., as in... am I going to have a nice house, be rich, get a step up on society is I stay close to this person, etc etc.
bizdroidism. unless they were supporting me in the style to which i would like to become accustome. well even then it would just be a matter of forgiveness. i'd still be turned off eroticaly. imaginatively and creatively as well. =^^= .../\...
My turn off would have to be lack of a personality or someone who is dead inside... I think that sums it up...