Lables don't mean anything , other than explaing the situation. I mentioned in another post about my friend telling me that I am not gay and I'm hardly bi, but I do have a cock fetish. I thought about it and he is probably right. I don't want to kiss, hug, cuddle or anything close, other than stroking or sucking his cock. He wants to do it all, but I'm not into it. He says he doesn't mind, because he likes being as close as we are, but I feel like maybe I'm too uptight. I just wondered if there are other bi married guys who feel like this? Am I just a selfish slut for quick pleasure.
You have the same exact feeling i do. i love to watch a man have an orgasm and if i could be of any help that would be great. i have never had the chance but i would not have to be talked into it. just masturbation with another guy would be fine. male bonding?? i get tired of being around a woman all the time. i hope i get the chance to feel a warm dick other than my own.
I don't think it matters what anyone but YOU thinks, so far as what you want to call yourself. And hey, good luck to you both
I don't think I would get tired of being around a woman, but the lack of doing it with my woman made it desireable to try. She hated bj's and she came right out and told me, in front of my gay friend, that it was alright with her if he gave me a bj. He looked like he won a contest and she was happy to pass me off, knowing that if I felt that I needed a bj that bad, I would have to let him do it. It's almost like being able to do things to yourself, that you never could do.
I just joined today and I feel the same way as you do. I just love the look and feel of a mans penis. I am bi and I have only held another man's penis once but would love to again. _Brian
See my response to another thread... some people would say that being obsessed with cock means you're bi. Others might not feel the same way. As you said, the label is meaningless. I think there are lots of bi dudes in the same boat, though... they enjoy pleasuring or being pleasured by guys, but they aren't really into romantic intimacy with a guy... it's more about the cock in the mouth, etc. Nothing wrong with either path, just do what you feel like and if your bisexuality extends into a more emotional intimacy, then great, if not, then that's fine too.
My friend called me yesterday and asked me if I could stop by and help him take the Christmas decorations from the attic. I went over to his house, we took down the decorations. We put the tree in the stand and put the lights on it. When I asked if balls were next, he said yes and cupped mine in his hand. He got down in front of me, opened my zipper and pulled out my cock and gave me a great bj. In the past, I used to loose all desires after cumming. After I came in his mouth , he let my cock slip out from his lips and stood up. The tent in his jeans made it obvious what he wanted. I put my hand on his hard cock and rubbed it before opening his zipper, reaching inside and pulling out his cock. He had a big drop of precum oozing from the head, as I squeezed his shaft. Not a word said. I dropped down to my knees and licked the precum around the head of his cock and took it into my mouth and savored the sweet fullness. I stroked and sucked his cock until he came in my mouth. As my mouth was filled with his cock and his cum coated my tongue, I realized that it felt like just what I would like to do to myself and envisioned that thought until he finished cumming. After I finshed sucking his cock, we both zipped up and finsihed putting the balls on the tree.
I have the same issue as well. I love the look of a big hard cock, would love to stroke one off, but I have no desire for intimacy other than that. No cuddling with a dude, no kissing, I just want to give all that affection to a cock. Latley I have been looking at pics of trannies and love that too. Best of both worlds, I guess. I am married and she doesn't have a clue. Sometimes I think it would be wrong, but other times my mouth waters at the thought. And I could never do it to with someone I know, someone who knows my friends, I would want to meet someone just for that, ya know? What a dilemma!
OMG, you have made me soooo hot right now, I am at work with a hard on. I want a penis in my mouth so bad I can taste it. I am going to have to masturbate or else I am gonna lose it in my pants.
I feel the same way. I am married also and would only want a stranger. Only a penis. I love talking about it. One of the reasons I joined yesterday. I want to go head to head so to speak. My penis touching another hard penis is my dream, then grabbing each other until the love juice flows. OMG !!!!
I know. I do love me a big hard cock, unfortunately it's attached to a dude...maybe I'l go get a fake one at the adult store. Anyone have any experiences with them? I would want a very realistic one...
I wouldn't do it unless I was 100% sure. In my case, I was and I didn't have to hide anything. If it weren't with my good friend, I wouldn't have the trust to try it with anyone else, especially a stranger. There are more married guys who have this attraction to cock, and nothing else, than anyone really believes. Not everyone can tell their wives or let them know of their desires. Most of the wives want nothing to do with sex in the first place, otherwise we wouldn't be fantasizing about feeling a nice big cock in the mouth. It's easy and convenient. Too bad you just can't share these feelings with a close married guy who might feel the same, other than on the internet. Just be careful and don't do anything that you would be sorry for. I started off by fantasizing with my wife while she wore a strapon. She always said I was good at sucking it. I could deep throat her dildo, which amazed her.
I love looking at hard, cut cock. I love balls too and man ass/asshole. Rear end shots get me hard too. But I have no desire to kiss a guy, maybe up for anal (top or bottom). I love doing mysself in the ass with cock dildos too. I can deep throat dildos.
I would have to say I am in the same boat. I have had fantasies of sucking a cock but I have no desire to kiss or be affectionate with a guy. My biggest fantasy is for my wife to do me with a strap on while I perform oral on a guy. Now if the cock was on a girl, a preop transexual that might be interesting too.
I love sex with a guy. But thoughts of a relationship don't come that often. I'm not a huge fan of kissing men, but it he happens to kiss me during sex I usually kiss back.
its good to see that i'm not alone in my situation. i too have a cock fetish. but only cock, not attracted to dudes at all what so ever. in public i check out plenty of the women i find attractive and i dont give a dude a first look. no crotch looking or bulge checking or whatever it would be called. the thought of kissing or making out with a male is repulsive to me but the thought of sliding a big veiny cock into my mouth makes me hot as fuck. i have zero experience tho as i have up till this point been to chickenshit to make a move but i do think eventually i will talk myself into trying to hook up somehow with someone that has the same intention is myself. mutual j/o, frotting, and oral is what i want to experiment with. i am in the houston tx area, maybe someone here is nearby and wants to make contact.. hmu
I too am not attracted to men or gawk at guys. I don't even check them out at the nude beach or nede resorts. But I do have a want to try a couple of things with a friend of mine to cure my curiosity and erase some thing off the bucket list. Hell, I get antsy and odd feeling acting when a couple times I stayed in a motel room with a guy and had to share a bed
