Why do most girls think anal is bad?

My girlfriend wont let me do her in the ass, she just says "it's nasty" and she seems to think that it is sacred. She wont even let my hand near it, her cheek is as far as I can go and she says dumb things like "my A is my own".

I've told her to just relax, I have lube (for when she gives me a handjob, it just feels really nice like that) that I will use but she still wont let me . Yet all the girls on this forum seem to like it, is there any methods of persuasion that have worked for/on anyone here? Also, why is it girls view anal sex as bad, when really it is so good?

I could really use the help!

 

just try talking to her. I thought the same thing as her when my bf first asked me but now i love it. Just go online with her and go to google and search anal sex. Thats what i did and then i tried it and i love it. Girls think its nasty at first because they think that when he sticks it in she might tear, or shit everywhere/on him, and that it will just hurt really bad but its actually really good.

 

Everyone is different dude, don't force her. Or better yet, don't expect her to do certain things.

Like Casie has said, just talk to her, but talk to her without any expectations that she'll eventually decide to go with it.

 

man i hate when my girl doesnt want it in the ass but shell turn just like all the others

 

she might think it's nasty cos that's where she shits out of, plus it sounds painful..

don't pressure her into things.

 

This girl i met once was such a tease...at first I was sure she wanted it in the ass...then I got it out and she was all..."wow dude I'm only 12 get out of my kitchen"

 

Lol

 

Girls shit? This I never knew!

 

I've talked to her a thousand times, it's getting to the stage where I'm going to have to forcfully take what's rightfully mine.

 

Wow, rape. Cause thats hot. Then you can go to jail and find out first hand what anal feels like.

 

Would you let her do you in the ass with a strap on?

 

haha

 

Thanks I thought I was clever!

 

Is this the only thing your gf wont do? cos if it is consider yourself lucky, theres so many guys out there getting NOTHING! keep trying to force her and you could be one of them.

 

I ain't gettin' ANY poo-nanny right now, so just appreciate being able to have a girl that you can poke at all.

 

I was joking about the rape... Yeah, I'm immature.

There's lots of shit she wont do like 69 and cumming on her face (tried both and she hated them), so don't say I'm lucky. Just about all we do is fuck (ALWAYS with a condom) and oral.

So I sometimes want to put my dick in her ass, big deal.

 

Wow yeah you seriously need to grow up. So she doesn't like to do a few things in bed..big deal, how about who she is a person? Do you love her?

There are a few things that I don't let my boyfriend do to me, thankfully, he loves me enough not to post shit like this online over it.

 

i'd lol if he did

 

What about who I am as a person? Why can't she love me enough to let me put my willie in her pooper? But of course, you take the girls side, because you're a girl yourself. You're just a sexist and a bad one at that. I bet you're the type of girl that thinks I'm a bad person just because I make her swallow my cum and I don't ever go down on her because I hate it... Well guess what, if she'd just let me fuck her in the ass she wouldn't be getting skull fucked all the time and maybe for once she could talk without a croaky voice, did you ever think of that? I tried explaining that to her too, and she turned it around on me like she does with all the other shit (like "why don't we ever just cuddle?" and i'm like "fuck off bitch it's the middle of summer go hug someone cold blooded") and says "why can't you just be happy with what I am comfortable with giving you?" Duh, because what you give me isn't enough you frigid whore!

 

Sounds like you're just blowing off some steam from the relationship, dude.

"I don't ever go down on her because I hate it"

That's your answer, man. She can't force you.


You can't force her, either.