my ex g/f doesn't want to see me anymore, meaning chill as friends, or even talk of the phone anymore, what do you guys think to problem could be? i still love her & miss her to death.
because some people are immature. My ex did the same thing. we never got to even go through the hardship of trying to be friends. he just stopped all contact with me when we broke up. his friend brought it up and said he couldnt handle the breakup and that was that. either way, shes just immature. thats the only response i can give
well first of all why did you two break up. was this a mutual break up. did you two leave on good terms? cuz it sounds to me none of the above apply. it sounds like she broke up with you and not on good terms. so heres my thoughts. she is just very immature, or she misses you and loves you as much as you do but it would hurt her so much to hear your voice or see you or even be friends. or maybe she might want to move on with her life and just forget about you. theres thousands of reasons i could think of. but those are the popular ones that i know of.
When my previous beau and I broke up, we said we'd be friends and all that jazz, but we haven't talked in a long time. We didn't have as much to talk about, nor as big an emotional connection as we did when we were in love each other. We also had to stop talking fully for the first week or two because he just kept pushing the boundaries of friend (still said he loved me, would try to hold my hand in public... things I don't do with my guy friends!) it's not that I bear any animosity towards him. We just don't have near so much in common as we used to.
all i can say is dont push it, really. i mean, if she really doesnt wanna talk then shes not gonna...my friend is going through this exact thing right now, and her x just doesnt wanna talk to her, no matter how much she tries. his reasoning is that it hurts too much to talk to her and know that he cant b with her. she broke up with him, so idk how it is in this situation, but if its like this then mayb thats her reasoning, u no? she just is being sorta selfish, tring to skip the inner pain of not being with u anymore by tring to distance herself away from u as much as possible...either way, or for whatever reason, what everyone on this thread is saying is very true...you've gotta move on DONT LIVE IN THE PAST...
Somehow, friend, I don't think we're the persons you should be consulting. Have you asked her about it?
