Do girls want sex?

actually... no i wouldnt. brads a hottie, but im happily monogamous and even then, there has to be some sort of emotional connection for me to hop in bed with people. im not saying that emotional connection has to take 93.7 hours to develop or anything, but it has to exist for me to slip twixt the covers with someone

 

but if you were single and Bradley Pitt was hot for you, would you hit it for a one night stand? I think you would, and no , the emotional connection would be all of 5 seconds, not 93 hours.

 

No offense dude, but perhaps your failure to grasp the concept she's talking about is why guys that get it frequently remain a mystery to you.

Whether it's legitimate or not; a "player" or one who is good with "getting the sex" can make a woman feel that emotional connection. THAT'S the key. Well, that and playing the game on the right court.

 

not my g/f but maybe its that she just doesnt want sex from me

 

no, I know why players get it frequently... almost all of them are quite good looking guys. This emotional connection is physical attraction which is priority number one. Great looking guys I have known get plenty of girls, average guys seldom or rarely, unattractive guys rarely or never.

the mystery is what to do about it when there is no physical attraction. Having the body of a 90 year old man is of course a huge drawback

 

As long as he's the right man - i'll be right in there!

 

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA , thats so true its funny yet hurtful

 

i think a sense of raw (sarcastic) realism appeals to anyone , girl or boy

 

You mean HE'D be right in there

 

personality and sense of humor are nothing compared to physical characteristics. Race matters a lot also, as some ethnicities are preferred over others. Of course white people don't understand this point since it does not affect them.

People on this thread are missing the point by saying it's an emotional connection. But what I am saying is that physical lust IS the trigger for the emotional connection; be it the cute face, long rocker hair, great body... there has to be a physical spark, don't you agree?

 

whats that menna mean !!!!!!!!!

 

let's make a deal. You write a proper sentence and I will do my best to respond, ok?

 

FUCKING NO DUDE. The women that have posted here don't agree, the dudes getting laid don't agree. FAHKIN SHIT DUDE. CONFIDENCE, CONFIDENCE, CONFIDENCE that's all it takes.

I can tell it's going in one ear and out the other. You have your own ideas about the interactions between men and women, and your results are commiserate with your attitude.

I've met several dudes like you all with the same story. I'm too short, my hair is fucked up, I don't dress right, I don't dance right, I'm not hot enough, etc etc etc.

You're not CONFIDENT enough. Period.

 

NO , u understand my point , what more do u want , the queen to type it her self ,

 

I am confident, I approach women often and they don't find me attractive. I'm successful, make $140,000 a year in 2007 and will make more in the next, college educated, give to charities, and have a lot of good qualities.

I have been living in the US for about 30 years and can honestly say that Americans are extremely racist people where almost all social interaction is very segregated by race and if you happen to be less than 1% of the population, you are an outsider especially for foreign looking people.

Confidence? let me tell you a story about this big dumb guy I know who is very shy and has no confidence. Women find no confidence to be very attractive in this guy who is dumb as nails and makes very little money. They just lust for him since he's a big musclehead. Confidence? Yes you are right, it helps, but PHYSICAL ATTRACTION is the name of the game without question this is about 90% of it.

 

look, I am in the US and you in the UK speak a different form of English. I don't know what you meant in your last post and I am being honest.

also, we don't really respect your queen in the least. We moved away from that nonsense about 230 years ago.

 

You must be right.

 

well, I know you said that in a mocking way but that's ok.

One thing that is very interesting is a lack of honesty in people, especially women, regarding physical lust. If we guys go for the good looking females and we all know that looks are a guy's primary motivation, why is so difficult to admit that male physical traits are also the top priority for females?

Is there really some tremendous emotional exchange going on? some awesome Shakespearean intellect? some magical poetry readings that explains the one night stand? how about basic lust that works both ways? It's quite animalistic.

 

right , sorry , i type very lazyily i suppose but i cant change and yeh , our monachy is nothing but a big tourist attraction!

"Of course white people don't understand this point since it does not affect them"

it was that!!!??? please explain , sounds racist

 

Yes he would and I'd be well up for it - that's what I meant! lol!