Last night me and my girlfriend were playing around and i decided to give her some oral pleasuring. I was licking her anyway possible, for one i couldnt find her clit. after a about 15 minutes i got allitle tired and bored so i took two fingers and i started to finger her and occasionally licking her. i did that for maybe 20 minutes, my hand was all wet from her juices dripping out, but through out the whole sesion she was calm and just laying on the bed, so i guess she didnt really orgasm. why is that? what shoud i do different? what went wrong? i asked her if she enjoyed it she sayed yes but i guess she didnt enjoy it as much as she could have. also why couldnt i find her clit? i thought after some rubbing or licking its supposed to get harder. please give me your opinions and advice thanks.
That's what happened the first time I did it, but to be fair I was really drunk... Have you fingered her before? If you have you should have a fair indication of where it is, if you have your finger (or tounge) in her, take it out and slide it straight up and you will feel a smooth round "thing". Go nuts.
The clitoris is right at the top, where her inner labia meet. Some girls have really tiny ones, and others have larger ones (like me). Also, when you're fingering her, make sure you're hitting her g-spot. I think SliK was talking about that, but he must have been confused. Slide two fingers in, and curl them upwards in a "come hither" motion. It's small and spongy and will give her a lot of pleasure. And don't just lick aimlessly. I suggest browsing online for some tips.
Try this game. Its a good excersize in practical anatomy. She masturbates, while you lick the tip of her finger (and what ever it is touching). You will learn all the secrect spots that she wants stimulated.
No I was not confused, if you start at the hole and work your way up (not up the hole... up to the top of the lips) you'll find the clit eventually :S If you get your finger at the hole you know you're inside her lips and you'll find it by moving straight up.
