ok when i talk on the phone with a girl (usually for the first or second time!) and we like each other but havent done anything, they almost always turn the conversation very personal and masterbate while im on the phone with them. for info's sake I can tell from how they sound or what they describe at the moment not to say that I dont like it, and I ask in my own subtle way what they are doing (and usually get an indirect but informative answer), but I just dont get it. this happens to me almost always with girls I am close with at the time, but not in a relationship yet. can anyone tell me what possibly goes through their heads? maybe my ideas of the stages of a relationship are skewed but it seems too soon to believe.
that's a compliment, take advantage of that! your post makes it seem like your scared or insecure about it. what i would do is ask them directly if theyre masturbating, if they say yes then say you were too and ask if they would like to have phone sex. that will probably be a gateway to actually having sex with them later on. cheers!
yo dude... are you gay? Don't you see? If they're masturbating on the phone, that means they really want sex. It's the perfect time to ask them to come to your house and get boned. If a girl is feeling a lot of pleasure from masturbation, she is much more likely to want some physical stuff from you.
