weed and sex

yup. Apparently I can last a long while during foreplay with weed in my system. Like, really long while.

Why should this be?

 

because your whole body feels numb man :] it still feels great but in other ways..less concentration on the dick means longer play time hehe..

you can also get a cream that will numb your dick a little (just tingles a little) called man-delay lol

 

I don't think I'd like any delay.

Like 1-2 straight hours of bj/hj man, and no cigar! WTF

 

Uh yea that's nice..

And why would you want to last a really long while during foreplay? That's just the warm up.. You should want to last longer during the actual fucking..

My boyfriend and I don't have much sex these days for a few reasons. Mostly because of me.. I'm too tired and lazy at the end of the day to want to fool around. Also because I have a crush on this guy and I think of him like constantly and I don't really want to have sex with my boyfriend anymore. Which I know is terrible! Also because he's an asshole and I don't like kissing him either.

But when we do have sex he never lasts that long. Whether he's stoned or not.

But I do! And I'm always stoned.

 

It's not like I want to. Only foreplay because she doesn't want to have sex yet.

She felt very bad I think, she spent like an hour doing the deed and I just couldn't climax. I think I might need to lay off the weed for a while...

 

lol I see. I figured it was like that.

Yea she might of thought that you weren't turned on enough to come or something. That sucks.

 

I was though, she's great. I mean fuck, I felt like shit for not being able to finish also.

 

weed is good.
sex is good.

weed + sex = good x2

 

Why then are you still with him? Sounds to me like you find him repulsive... you'd be doing him and yourself a favor by moving on.

 

Because we have a child together. He knows exactly how I feel. We're trying to work it out a bit, but I still can't get this other guy out of my head. Maybe because he's my neighbor/part time dealer, and friend.

Also he has his problems with me too. It's not just one sided. We are civil to eachother, and sometimes get along really well. He's an alcoholic and has some anger/rage problems, and it causes us to fight and to do mean things to eachother.

It's complicated, and I didn't really explain myself well in that above post. Reading it again makes me sound kind of stupid I will admit.

 

As long as you're maintaining a good environment for the child... but keeping the kid in an environment with someone who can't control his temper may be doing more harm than good.

I can tell you this from personal experience... anger and rage issues is a nice way of describing a lack of self discipline and a need to grow up. I can lay some claim to those issues myself and almost without exception my incidences arise from a selfish reaction to a situation I'm unable to control or manipulate and instead of sucking it up I have a temper tantrum. It's a social skill I need to teach myself in middle age because I didn't bother doing so when I was younger.

 

Yep you pretty much described him! He started drinking and doing drugs, coke and pot at an extremely young age. (He's 42 now.) He stunted his emotional growth, and he'll NEVER grow up. He's extremely immature, and it drives me CRAZY. I need some stability in my life, and he will never provide that for me. He also does coke on occasion, and I don't like that either.

We try not to argue in front of the baby. She's so smart at 16 months, and already points to beer and signs of beer and says "beer." Which is bad enough. But to start picking up on his bad language would be even worse.

He doesn't really like me most of the time, and spends a lot of his time outside working on various projects and trucks etc. So instead of fighting in front of Jade we just go our seperate ways. Phone's ringing.

OH and also. He isn't physically harmful or abusive. So he would NEVER lay a hand on me or jade, but sometimes I think that kind of abuse would be better than him punching holes in the walls that he has to later fix, and causing me extreme emotional distress.

Plus he's not just my bf, we've been engaged for almost 3 years now. I told him the other day we should sell my 4000 dollar ring, and pay off our debts and see what happens from there, but he doesn't want to break up. I'm a lot younger than he is too, and I know that it won't work out in the long run.

 

what kind of weed are you smoking man!?
i wish i can last 2 hours.

 

Until he actually wants to grow up then that attitude isn't going to change and you strike me as someone intelligent enough that I needn't point out the counterproductivity of nagging.

My personal battles are a big reason I'm still single and why I'm soooooooo glad I didn't make any kids along the way. I'm watching the culture continue to gravitate toward the concept of easy answers and convenience and that's something that is helping take it apart; the notion that there's a drug that will "cure" something diagnosed as bipolar when in many, many cases it's a lack of self discipline. Drugs are being prescribed to cover up a problem that should be dealt with by behavior modification and attitude adjustment.

I've pulled this thread off topic (it's my singular talent) and I'm considering the irony of railing against legal drug use in a thread about weed and sex (both can be looked at as drugs of sorts) in the stoner's lounge forum. Hell, my very presence here can be construed as off topic... I'm on an open ended sabbatical from a daily habit I held for twenty years and over the past five years my use of pot has been limited to the odd occasion. My longest relationship featured ample occasions of stoned (and drunk) sex. The relationship itself was toxic though... and a product of where we both were in life. For me the relationship accessorized an existence where alcohol and drug abuse were the main course. It took me a long time to realize that I had things ass-backwards.

I wish you, your boyfriend, and your daughter the best as you negotiate life's unsteady course.... and lots of stoned sex!

 

I just wrote a really long reply to you stinkfoot, but it didn't work!!!!!

So I'll just sum it up by saying this: Can I have stoned sex with you instead?

And speaking of children, she just woke up. And she has a little cold. So I better check on her.

Oh yea another thing that I said was that I will NEVER have drunken sex with him because it's just gross. He pressures me to do things that I hate such as anal. I have tried it with him before, and I can't do it. Also porn and sex don't work for us either. It makes me feel used. Like we're not having sex with eachother.

I love getting off topic, and totally turning someone's thread around. lol We should indulge more often. Keep in touch. I like you.

 

dunno what kind of weed is it... It has seeds, which leads to the idea that it is schwag, but with 5 tokes I'm pretty high so really I have no idea.

Dude I feel like shit, weed is doing some weird things to me.

 

I've been made conscious about my thread derailing skills by someone who calls himself an old asshole. He was correct. I can not do a whole lot about the way I stray sometimes... there are often so many different directions discussion can go but I'm resolved to gently bringing discussion back on track. Hell- Skip has be helping keep things together here, I sure as hell had better try to abide by the guidelines I'm trying to enforce!

Anyway- back on topic... I have scruples and messing with a relationship especially with a kid involved is a personal no-no, but other than that- sure... let's have stoned sex!

I hope your little girl feels better.

 

lol well I didn't mean now!!! I meant future sex.

I take an anti anxiety medication, and one of the side affects is "lack of sex drive." And I think that is one of the reasons why I don't like to have sex very often. It's also because I'm usually stoned and ready to pass out. And I love reading in bed, and sometimes I don't want to stop reading to have sex. lol

 

Not now????? oh maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnn!!!

Have sex before you read. Solves a world of problems... although how much does being stoned affect you're desire to read?

Is the anti anxiety med something you'll eventually be able to stop?

 

wow get her stoned too. then you can both enjoy 2 -3 hours of foreplay