Having children or the lack there of...

Before you read this, I'm not crazy, I swear! Maybe paranoid...


So, I talked to this guy who is really into Vedic astrology, although he doesn't claim to be professional or anything of the sort. He told me a lot of stuff about myself. Some of it was off, but a lot of it was really on. I mean A LOT, and not the kind of stuff that could be applied to everybody. He told me I woud have few children. I asked him few or none, because since I was a child, I believe I will not be able to have children. He says my lagna referenced few, and couldnt expand on it . He went further into it and said I would have either wind problems, hernia or uterus problems. Yup, uterus problems.

I'm not into astrology at all. In fact, I never even read my horoscope in the newspaper. A part of me wants to blow this all out the window...

But anyways, I've always felt like I wouldn't be able to have children, since about the age of 9 or 10. It's something I think about quite often.

And since I've became sexually active, I've never used contraceptives with those I was having regular sex with, unless you count pulling out, and that was only 100% of the time with one guy. The other guy, there was zero contraceptives involved, even for the most part pulling out. But that was a long distance relationship and sex wasn't frequent, and I wasn't sure of my fertile days.

Should I be worried? I mean, I'm extremely happy I don't have children at the moment, but I hope to have them in my future. I just don't know...

 

A doctor could probably tell you better than some random dude. Just my opinion.

 

i think personally i would be more worried about having sex and not using any form of contraception for disease and preventative uses,,, than over not having any children ever from what a self proclaimed astrologist told me... as a side note,,, what he did is take a chart n give you what typical ppl of that sign or chart data may have complications with in life,,, take it with a grain of salt.... not as a doctrine of your future...

 

Get thee to a gynecologist. All sexually active women need to have one, no matter what age. Also, I second what the other poster said about disease--it's just not safe to be having unprotected sex, even if you don't "think" you could get pregnant. Your astrology sign isn't even relevant here--you need to see a doctor.

 

Ok, I probably wasn't clear enough, so for some clarity:
I was having unprotected sex with the two people I was in relationships with since I started having sex. I wasn't worried about contracting any diseases. Maybe, I should have had a better plan to prevent child birth, but like I said, I've had doubts since I was extremely young. Perhaps, that sounds naive and childish and maybe it is, but alas my theory has proven to be true. As for the OBGYN, I've been. I'm "normal" but I never really asked about fertility issues with the doc, perhaps for the reason that I don't want to sound like a hypochondriac. Afterall, I'm a young unattached female, who isn't actively trying to have a baby nor do I want one at this time. Furthermore, my periods have been extremely normal, I'm healthy, and so forth. GAWD---I know how terrible this all sounds, I realize this....arrghhh...

 

nah sister it doesnt sound terrible
i didnt mean to make it sound like you were out whoring around either
i did mean however that dont go on some astrologers report on not having kids or your own gut feelings on whether you are able to have children ... I have four nieces from a sister that was told she was not going to have children by a"psychic"

 

Thanks dilliga for a sound mind. Mine hasn't been working properly
I know I shouldn't worry so much. When the time comes for children, I'll cross that bridge. In the mean time, I'm in no ways ready, and I'm not going to sweat it...or at least I'll try to think about the possibility less. Whatever happens happens.

 

Not to mention that he might have been wrong, he did say 'few' children. Which doesn't mean a lot, but it doesn't mean any either. And in matters like these, even doctors can be wrong.