Please tell me if I'm wrong here.........

nevermind me.

 

I think he's pretty much a loser. No one deserves that treatment. I'd show him call the cops.

 

Abosulutely, positively, without a doubt, YOU ARE NOT IN THE WRONG HERE!!!


Any "father" that puts his drug habits in front of his own children and spouse is just plain fucked up. Please, LEAVE HIM! If he's using meth, he needs more help than you can give him. I know love is blind, but this is a time where you definately need reality glasses. You are putting your children in danger by living with this man--who knows what he could do to them accidentally while he's high. If he won't move out, then YOU take the kids and move out. Try and find a shelter or live with friends/relatives until you can get back on your feet. This is serious--think of what you are raising your children around.

Best of luck (pm me if you need any help)

-Kate

 

depends on what you think you are wrong about.

I don't think you are wrong in telling him what you think and how you feel. You said he told you to tell his friends and you did, following his instructions, so how can he get mad at you?

You mentioned that you have kids Sorry, but I'm against doing drungs under a roof with kids. Are they his kids too? Then how come he doesn't have to be responsible? You said he doesn't work. So who brings home the bacon? If you are the one, then I think you are wrong in giving him the money to get the drugs, again assuming that's where he gets his money from. I think you are wrong for fueling his behaviour by puting up with it,

 

that's good advice kate, i agree- you've gotta get out of there. it's bad enough being around drugs since you were 10, i dont know how young your kids are but you can't have them around that

 

get out of there hun.

 

would anyone be willing to belive that theres two sides to every story? or maybe that when people get angry they tend to exagerate or over do it?


probably not but its all good.

 

My parents gave me advice once and it wasn't bad.

They told me to be a man and get a job dopehead.

 

I do.

But I also feel that when people are in the situation, they view things differently then people from the outside.

A friend said, its always easy to advice other people but so difficult to follow your own advice. When you're inside, you forget everything that you've once claimed about what you would've done.

 

I can't take sides here from a distance. I'm a big fan of both sprout and moonshyne and just hope they sort through it together. It takes two to tango and there's probably some giving and taking to be had on both sides to come to a harmonious decision about what type of homelife works best for the both of them.

 

Wait a minute,...you have kids?He is quite a bad influence. I do not think you are wrong I think you are completely right and I am very sorry I don't have any advice for the time being. Good luck.

 

I think it would be better if I edited this and leave it alone...too much info. Thank you all though for trying to give me some good advise, I really appreciate it.

<3,
Moonshyne