I always try and stimulate my girlfriends clit during foreplay before we have sex. I want her to orgasm before we have sex, because I hear its harder for girls to cum just from penetration. I cant really FEEL her clit. I know exactly were it is and when I eat her out I can see where its supposed to be. The hardest part is to spread her lips apart (like they do in the pornos) to lick her clit, just becuase my tongue is only so long, and its slipperly as hell down there. What I normally do is kinda stick a finger in her vagina, then drag it up to where her inner lips meet. I know this is where it is supposed to be but i can FEEL her nub like people describe. Maybe she has a small clit? Then I normally just rub 2-3 fingers in a circular motion at hte top area of her vagina. IDK, i think she likes, she doesnt stop me and I can tell by her moans and hips im stimulatiing SOMETHING, but she is she type that doenst like to communicate so she doenst really tell me that feels good, faster, slower, higher, lower, etc. IDK any other guys have trouble with this? I want her to cum to, not jsut me
Like they said, just ask. My boy asked me and I was glad, because even though he was at the time, it made me feel more comfortable to tell him when he wasn't.
Ask her to hold her lips open for you and then let you tongue do it job and use your ears and her pelvic motion as you guide...If she's moanin' & not complainin' then she's enjoyin'
