Here is the story. I have a fantasy about french kissing my gf after I give her a blowjob. This fantasy can have variations like she swallowing an then me kissing or playing with the cum and so on. The problem is I can't do it. I tasted my own sperm and I don't mind the taste but I can't do it. Have anyone tried this? Any ideas on how to pass over it? PS. I tried to find some movies featuring this, for inspiration, but I found none.
It's not going to kill you or turn you gay. If she could have it in her mouth, then why not you too? Does the tenderness stop, after you cum? Kiss her and say "Thank You" She would probably be plesantly surprised.
its a mental block, so start small first a light peck after she performs oral, not open lipped kissing, etc. then a longer kiss, but still closed-liipped. after that, maybe a little tongue. then more frenching. eventually move to the kinkier stuff... but start small, with gentle pecks first. and let her know that its a mental blcok taht you dont want to have and youre worknig to overcome
Why is it you can't do it, do you lose the desire after you orgasm? Happens to me and other alot, its a physical thing, guys lose the desire after orgasm. Have you asked your gf to do this after a blowjob? She will have to help you if you really want this to happen. If not then let it remain a fantasy. I asked my wife recently to do this, took me 5 years to get the courage to ask cause I did not know how she would react but she was cool about it and said it sounded like fun. IF you're looking for movies there is a series of dvd's called "Cum in my mouth and spit it back in yours" by Devils Film that the guys come in the mouths of chicks and they spit it back to them or share it. There are 4-5 dvd's in the series. Good stuff, I have a few of them but they are not for everyone
thanks for replies. @fezzzik Yes indeed, this is the reason. Though I think it will be great to be able to control it. I just hate it when the chemistry dictate, and this time the culprit is Prolactin hormone. @Allonym This night I made the first step. I rubbed her breasts with sperm then kissed them.
That was cool! I am what I am. This cannot be changed. The gay or hetero thing is just potentiality. This phrase made my day. thanks
