Well I have this girlfriend that is very abstinent... we don't even make out. She's cool, but their are times I want to have fun too lol... any ideas on how I could change her mind?
talk to her find out why she doesnt like to make out, what shes thinking, what turns her on, what doesnt etc communication in a relationship is a GOOD thing
I wouldn't set out to change people. But I would communicate with her and make my decision as to whether I can tolerate that difference.
You should talk to her about your feelings, but more importantly you should respect her decision. If you find that you cannot be in a relationship without sex then find someone not abstaining.
Make out, abstain from sex, whatever. She can decide to be a puritanical nun if she wants, and he can decide to find a girl that isn't "very abstinent" if he doesn't like it.
well we broke up lol... one... I would always waste minutes by just talking to only her... she used to call me more than 10 times everyday... and conversations about nothing would last 2 hours everytime she called and well I don't talk much lol...
