*sighs* the inevitable relationship question...

well, i met this really great guy. he's everything that i could ever want. problem is...he lives in Nova Scotia, i live in Michigan. yes, we met through hipforums. anyway, we are not really in a real relationship yet, but we do know how we feel about each other. lately, i haven't been online much due to the holidays and now school. when i do get the chance to talk to him, he seems like he's a little peeved with me, he's not that talkative, or just seems rather cold to me. could it be because he has something else on his mind or what? i don't know.... so, this is a call going out to all who understand guys. what's going on? i'm so confused.

and i thought we were supposed to be the cryptic and confusing ones...haha. oh dear.

 

it's a mistake taught to us by the media and culture that men are bastions of emotional strength and cool headed logic. hurt feelings are hurt feelings. and the holidays have a way of wearing people down. stick it out, see what happens. but don't ever grovel. that just sets a bad precedent for the relationship.

 

so very true. hopefully, it gets better, but it's always in the back of my mind, you know? oh well, i'll just have to try to let it go and see what happens. then again, there's always that "oh shit, did i do something wrong? what did i say?" feeling, that one lingers like no other. oh well...i'll take your advice and not dwell on it. =]

thanks for the advice, i appreciate it.

 

I would not be too worried about it if i were you, if he is peeved with you, then he should talk to you about it, and if you can't talk about issues together, than the relationship will never thrive anyways. If it is meant to be it will work itself out
As far as the long distance thing goes, I have been in a long distance relationship before, and they can work out, but you both have to be REALLY dedicated and willing to do whatever it takes to make it work.
I hope you get your dream guy though hun

 

=] exactly, so i kind of don't think it's because he's peeved. he would've said something if he was. =] true.
i know what you mean. i was in a long distance relationship before that turned out to be a total waste of time and i actually face to face knew that guy. so, that was wonderful haha. oh well, i'm pretty sure it'll be ok...i'm just stressing. it's what i do, i need to do something that stops me from thinking about it. =]

thanks! by the way, it's nice to meet you, i'm Lizzie!