Long live the big fellas! Yup i know what you mean, I have had the same talk with gay men, who say they like men, so of course they want "MEN" not girly looking boys.
True olhippie, Weeble is so fuckin cute! Weeble that current sig pic makes me want to make the 1000 or so mile drive just to take you out to coffee. (if thats all you want)
I used to eat a lot. I also used to starve myself. I've visited both extremes. I didn't like either of them. I smartened up and started eating right and excersizing more and it doesn't do anything. I'm so strange. I'm 23 and my body is still changing. I'm not gaining or losing but the shape and proportions are changing in a way that makes me look like I'm losing weight when I'm not. Sometimes it almost feels like I'm going through a second puberty. Sometimes I wonder if my inability to lose weight has anything to do with the fact that I think I have some hormonal imbalances. For the life of me I can't think of what it's called but it's women who go through sevear PMS that sometimes stretches for weeks when it really shouldn't. I've always thought I might have that. I'm going to start doing target excersizing for my abs, arms and chest area. Turn that weight into some muscle and maybe lose a couple cup sizes on my boobs. I don't want to be that thin, but for 5'6 I think 160 - 170 pounds is a healthy weight. That would mean I want to lose 60 - 70 pounds.
60-70lbs seems like a huge amount, but it's within reach. When I was 16 and on a steady reigmen of prozac I got up to 215lbs at 5'11ish. When I stepped on the scale at the doctor's office and found out I was 215, I freaked and knew that it was time for change. I immediately figured out a rough estimate of how many calories I burned in a day and cut my food intake to half of that. Within 6 months I was down to 175ish. After about a year (and still) I levelled off at around 165. 50lbs just by limiting my calories. At times I went too far with it. If I ate too much one day I'd feel horrible and not eat anything the next. That's my only problem with what I did. But in the end, limiting my calories was incredibly effective and I eat completely normally now ithout fear of gaining. On the contrary, now I want to gain weight in the form of muscle mass. I'd like to be a solid 185lbs with 11 or 12% body fat. Maybe it'll be this year... edit- and by the way, I saw your pics on juggsclub. you're sexy as hell. i hope you don't worry about all that shit too much.
I don't worry about it too much. I don't really go on what a scale says because I do have a lot of muscle. I actually go on pants size. If I lost enough weight to be in a size 12 jeans (I'm in 18/16s right now) and weighed like 180.. I'd be okay with that. So I wouldn't weigh exactly what I wanted but oh well. I've been working on losing weight slowly and healthily. I used to weigh nearly 260, so this is an improvement anyway. I figure if someone can't like me for who I am then they aren't really worth the effort anyway. Coming from you, that's a huge compliment. You are absolutely gorgeous.
Hey Chris! I miss talking to you, and I love you, I haveta go to work now..which sucks..keep your chin up and smile..and you are right he's absolutely Gorgeous!!
Awwww... I miss talking to you, too, Heather. Did you know that Jeff has started posting here? lmao. I told him not to invite all of necron but Fatty ended up here too. *shrugs* You need to get online more girl. I love you!!
that's how I feel too.... I'm not concerned about my weight, that's just a number that doesn't reflect your fat/muscle balance too well. I'm currently in about a size 14 pant and I wanna get down to an 8 again eventually. I'm at my widest now, I've never been this big. I've never worn less than an 8 either, but I think that's my healthiest size - still a little roundness but not enough to affect how I move etc, which my current size does sometimes
I'm more about losing weight for the clothes anyway. Not so much the attention I'd get from guys. I already get a lot of attention from guys so that's really not a problem. I want to go into a store and be able to buy the clothes that they generally don't make for women my size. It's hard to find clothes that fit right and also look good. Specially when your current cup size is a G! I got big boobs, a tiny high waist and then my love handles and belly stick out and then my thighs go back in.. so I'm extra curvy.. Although if I look this good at 230 I can only imagine I'd be a complete knock out at about 150 - 160 pounds.
Hey, I have an endometrial cancer and I've never been fat in my life.....and the vast majority of my support group are tiny lil things as well. If anything I'd think a little fat could help.
yeah, well, my husband's grandfather, the thin, hardworking vegan man, just had quadruple bypass surgery. my grandfather, also a lifelong slim person, has had several bypass surgeries. he also suffers hypertension. i didn't get fat until my mid teens, but i had been diagnosed with hypertension in my childhood, when i was still so skinny that doctors were always nagging my mom to feed me better. who fucking knows? i'm a mutant, perhaps, but i dont think the health care industry really knows what the fuck they're talking about.
Being overweight sucks. You lose all the "length" and chicks and end up a loser like me. Hence the username.
As a fat man, i think i have a say in this 1. this is spam and should be closed 2. No one should have to feel like shit for being a certain weight 3.to me, this is equivalent for a white guy to say something like "All niggers do is steal and do drugs they should look at this website/book on how to have a better life" (im not raceist, just saying it pisses me of to have people saying i have problems with weight, just like if a some one was calling a black person a ******) 4.Not all skinny people are beutifull 5. I hate to see people with simmilar weight to be exploited into bullshit weight loss programs and pills
