I have been with my boyfriend/fiance for a year and 9 months, and i have decided it might be time to go our separate ways. Our lives are very intertwined (bank accounts, apartment, animals, etc etc), and i don't know how i am going to deal with it. I know i will come out strong as always, but i am still nervous as hell to break up with him. Any advice on how to keep strong? Thanks all
I could never break up with my boyfriend. Hes the only thing that makes me happy and hes the only person whose ever loved me as much as he does. I dont think i could live without him, hes all i got. Im sorry that you have to break up with your fiancae but you've made your decision and its best to end it now because if not it would probly be harder later. Sometimes things dont end up the way you want them to. I hope everything goes okay for you.
One really important thing I was told by my mamma when i was young was that I didnt need a man to make me happy, I needed me.
if you need someone to live, then you should step back and reevaluate yourself. Depending on someone emotionally is not a good thing. Two years ago I broke up with a b/f of 4.5 years. It was the best thing that I ever did! Now I found the love of my life.
I dont need a man in my life, i do like to have one though. Thank you for being there for me We have not broken up yet, i am pretty sure it's coming though. He said that he is okay with me caravaning, and things of that nature, but I am pretty sure he expects me to "outgrow" my flower child-ness, and i dont think that is going to happen...so we'll see.
wow, thats really sad... and I can totally remember being in that position at your age... don't define yourself by anyone else but yourself. ALWAYS maintain your independence.
