best you can do is be supportive and offer positive reinforcement whenever you do see skin. hopefully, with time and with help, shell becoem more comfortable with her body and who she is. generally speaking, body issues stem from the rest of society being assholes about the way someone is shaped, not as much from internal forces (though they can make the outside forces more effective given certain personalities)
I think every girl has body issues. Just say nice positive comments to her like allonym said and eventually she wont have a problem anymore. Its taking me a while to be comfortable with myself but i know eventually i will be.
i know i'm the same exact way, but after awhile i get completely comfortable with who i'm with and i'm fine. just give it awhile, and say nice things to her and maybe she'll come around soon.
Same here. It took me a while to get comfortable with my body. Especially since my roommate weighs like 100 lbs soaking, and walks around in really little outfits/underwear all the time. I like my body, and I've gotten nothing but good feedback , but I have body fat, which totally goes against our culture. Know what's sexy? Undress her, kissing and touching what you uncover. Tell her you love her body.
I don't want to sound unsupportive but why would you want to have sex if you don't feel confortable enough with someone to be seen naked. I may sound old-fashioned, but I believe you need to reach a certain level of comfort before you get involved in any sexual activities. How good sex can be if you feel awkward? But Allunym is right show her support and positive reinforcement. Girls need to feel pretty and attractive.
i know , its real sad , cos shes so nice n pretty an id like her wot evers under them clothes , shes got lots n lots of issues tho , not just body , like u all say itll jus take time. i feel like im violating her privacy from jus posting this even tho non of u lot know us hahahaa
You could try showering together or even better, soaking in a bubble bath together. You don't have to have sex if she doesn't want to. But do offer to scrub her back, shampoo her hair, soap her body, etc. The point is to help her get comfortable being naked with you by letting you treat her and her body with love without necessarily being sexual. I dunno if it will work, but who knows? Maybe if you keep on doing it she'll eventually be more comfortable being naked in front of you.
Yeah, lots of people have body issues, if not everyone. I really really really really feel much more comfortable fucking with clothes on as well, cause I have man boobs (moobs).
