How do u know?

How do u know if someone ONLY wants to be with u just so they can have sex?

 

i would think in your mid forties that would be fairly easy...

 

Well, its symple, they don't care of your opinions, thoughts and desires. They usualy act very selfish.

 

yeah, ya would think so huh...guess maybe after not being with anyone for over 2 yrs I am getting a little paranoid

 

usually when you hang out its just sex and not much more

 

because they may always talk about sex or ask for sex, and you can see that they have no remorse.
and when your having sex its not connected as much, or after sex they may just get up and go

 

I suppose people go into relationships with personal motives which are sometimes selfish
oneof which it to have sex for men, and companionship for women.

My question is what is your motive of going into the relationship, what do you want to achieve in the relationship?

If you know what you motives are and they are not selfish, by interacting with the person you can easily tell what their motives are. It would all be me me me, my needs, my needs my needs at nothing about the other person needs.

 

depens when you see them!?