I have a friend who is 14 years younger than me and she has become quite flirtatious... saying things like "your friend may be into me but you are not" and when I asked if she could help me out with something (during some flirting back and forth) she says "I'd be willing to if you wanted to" at which I replied you can't say things like that without me twisting it with my own perverted slant and she said "maybe I thought that too"... she is gorgeous and I'm just - - well, I'm just me... is she into me???
I guess easier said than done - - I haven't dated in 15 years and am just getting back into things... nervous I guess? so I just say "are you into me?" doesn't seem natural... come to think of it, she has made several comments on how she really likes to suck cock - - which is great since I really like to have my cock sucked, you know? do you think she just wants to get it on?
GABoy, You can either keep on wondering and trying to guess what she's thinking, or you can find out for yourself. Make a move, ask her directly - do what you feel is right, man. I can't really give you more than that because I don't know the two of you well. Much luck, Musikero
Does she know that you have been "out of the dating scene" for a while? Some women look at that as a challenge (be it a fun one). Instead of being a self-assured man you are nervous and hesitant (to some women that is sweet). Think back to high school, is it kinda the same feeling you're having? Well, to women in can be an endearing quality. It's kinda like a guy dating a younger woman to recapture his youth. Women don't often come across a 39 year old man that reminds them of a more "innocent" time. If I was in the market for a partner I would be looking for a man that I could corrupt. and darlin' your post makes me think you are corruptable. Bet she wonders too.... Go out with her. See where it goes. What is the worst thing that could happen? Hurt feelings? Hell, at 39 you've learned that the heart does mend, so go for it. You'll have to do it sometime, unless celibacy is your thing. So, go out with the younger hot chick and relive your youth. Lots of men I know would kill to be in your position
I totally agree with HisEden... Personally... I liked breaking down barriers... Nothing makes me want someone more than knowing they 'don't have sex on the first date' or 'don't kiss on the first date'... makes me wanna see if I can break it down... I'm sure she knows you're nervous... No offense but she's being pretty straight forward without taking the fun out of it... Don't give in...
I don't want to be a party-pooper here, but she may be simply cock-teasing for her own purposes. If you're anything like me, teasing hurts and you'd be weary of it. There is a good chance I'm wrong, so I would take the plunge and ask her directly lest my feelings get hurt from all the expectations and fantasies. If I'm right, at least you can nip it in the bud.
this is what I have been most afraid of. Given that, however, we did go out for lunch and I did not make a move. we continued to talk and flurt and we parted ways with our normal friendly hug. 10 minutes later, the text message comes in saying: "you drive me crazy!" Needless to say, we are moving forward and having some fun! she's just so young and that scares me a bit since I'm really into her, but we shall see what the future brings!
