Dont Know What To Do

I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!! :leaving:

Going home soon

See I am at my boyfriend's house,which i am here a lot. We have a 6month baby girl. I will be 18 in May. My mom told me that I could move in with him when I turn 18,but i dont want to hurt her feelings. I just dont know what to do. Also I want to move in with him but I am scared too. See we would be living with his parents house untill we got some money to get our own place. And ive told my mom if i do move in with him that we would come up on the weekends(its only 20mins away).

Also, I want to get married some day but i dont know if my boyfriend really wants to.

I just dont know what to do.

 

take care of the child. Do whats best for the baby.

 

It sounds nice to be with your boyfriend and the baby all the time. Is it possible for him to move in with you and your mom?

 

haha....no not really see we still smoke and we cant smoke at my house but that isnt the main reason the main reason is they get along but i dont know for how long they could get along for.

 

Wish I could help but I have never been in your situation.

No kids now or ever.

But I wish you the best.

 

Makes sense. Well you will still be close to your momma if you move out, so dont worry too much about that. Try it out and see if it works for you. Trying cant hurt.

About the marriage....let that stew for a b it...you are together for now, and your priority is loving your daughter....marriage of course is idealistic, but for now, let it be....

 

What seems like the right thing to do?

Nobody can answer this question better than yourself.

 

I see an easy solution to this, QUIT SMOKING! then the baby will be happy, you two will live long and happy and your mom will be happy and the only ones mad will be the tabacco Industry.

 

I think they mean get high

 

I have an even better solution. Kill the baby and eat it. You are too young for a baby anyway. Then offer your boyfriend to your god(s) by means of slicing his heart out with a spoon. Gods like that.
And as a final touch you might barbecue your mom, but I would not advise that. It takes too long to be proper cooked.

But by all means, keep smoking.

 

wtf is all i got to say to that because i dont know if you are joking or if you really think that.

if you really think that then thats pretty fucked up.

 

i dont smoke cigs i smoke weed

 

Obviously I really think that, but why does that make me pretty fucked up?

I believe in freedom of thought and in not being judgemental towards other people.

 

but you are being judgemental because who says what age is okay for you to have a baby?

 

I dont think he was serious.

 

yea but still i dont like it when people tell me im to young. Ok maybe i am too young to a lot of people but no one has ever said you have to be so old to have a baby.

 

You're 17, you have a child out of wedlock, and your #1 concern is getting high?

That's real sharp.

Hopefully you don't smoke around the baby.

 

First off,we dont smoke anywhere around the baby. We wait untill she is in bed for the night.
Second off,did i ever say smoking is my number 1 concern? NO!!!!!! i didnt ever say that. Someone told me why dont we live with my parents and i said because we cant smoke there and because i dont know how long it would take for my boyfriend and my parents untill they stopped getting along. So you are wrong! I never said it was my number 1 concern.