Saying fuck you. i have found that as much as you want those words to come out your mouth or to write it down [txt, msn] when you have a fight with your parter, it really really isnt worth saying it. When that lump in the back of neck comes and you are holding back tears cos your upset, or cos your angry, really do not say fuck you i used to say this to a boyfriend i had who was long term.. it made him so hurt. it never made me feel good saying it. i always regreted it. and it doesnt make you any better... and when they get hurt it isnt worth it. the same goes with any one you care about really, but it hurts extra if its a partner.
"Fuck" lost all it's meaning. I go for the hard poison now, such as: "If I had been given the choice to either castrate a buffalo and then lick the blood droppings from the wound I created or be seen in public with you, I'd immediately go to fetch my knife and bib." It's a lot more hurtful.
my girlfriend has said it to me a few times, an it does kind of hurt she always regrets doing it I like that extremely creative insult Mitok
It is amazing what 2 words can do. The fuck you thing never bothered me. But I can see how it could effect others. There are a lot more hurtful things to say. It also depends on who you say it to and how you say it.
I am very creative with insults, having to swere is just far to lame and easy and does not create that deep emotional gash your looking for!
Oh yeah, to your partner sure. I thought we were talking anyone. I've said that to bosses before. Never gotten fired either.
I draw people in a bit with small talk sounding dialog then get them: Me: Hey Paul- you got a minute? Paul: I'm busy, what? Me: Well when you're not busy and you have a few minutes, could you do me a small favor? Paul: Sure, what? Me: Go fuck yourself.
fuck you? me and my friend used to say it to each other all the time. lol just as a joke tho "fuck you!" ..."well fuck you too!" lol seriously, it doesn't even seem like a swear word to us any more. its just that we say it so regularly... that we forget its a bad word. lol