Do you think it's possible to be truly in love with someone, but not mind sharing them in a 3-some? I don't mean having them go off and hook up with other people. That's an open relationship and not at all what I'm talking about. I mean, having a 3-some with your loved one and not being jealous when seeing them touching another male/female? Is that possible, or does it mean I don't love him?
i know it's possible...but even if you do feel it, that doesn't mean you have to choose to make your decisions based on twinges of jealousy. it can be a difficult road though, and not recommended for most. and one thing you should never do is coerce someone you care for into doing something they're truly uncomfortable with...cuz that way lies tragedy. i've seen many a person get greedy and pushy and lose someone very dear to them....but ya can't go back for a do-over...what's done is done.
No one was pushing anyone. My boyfriend and I are both very open-minded, experimental, and bisexual. We had a three-some with another guy last night, and thoroughly enjoyed it. We did everything but sex, because I think that's too private and emotionally weighty to share with someone else. We both love each other a lot, but my best friend seems to think I'm really strange for not feeling jealous. It was arousing.
