bi curious and about to try for the first time, advice?

I'm 19 bi curious and haven't ever been with a man before, but its going to happen soon (hitting it off with someone real well.) I am going to bottom...any advice?

 

safe sex

 

Make sure to take it really slow. Use lots of lube that works with the condom.

 

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I personally think you should be the dominant male, Rail the other guy out so he knows who's boss. First thing you should do is shove your cock deep down his throat and keep it there until he nearly blacks out, then pull out real fast when he gets a lot of throatspit built up. After the BJ just go to town on his ass with your cock and start using stuff like table legs and other huge objects to make him feel the pain. It will eventually become pleasure after he scabs over really well a few times. Then you should both go out back and shoot urselfs in the face so you can live in harmony together in gay heaven. That's my dream guy anyways

 

Mine too. But www.troc.us for real support.

 

I would agree with Zachimus. Just take it really really slow, or it will be painful. Lots of lube is a definite plus. And always always safe. Another suggestion would be to warm yourself up, by fingering yourself. And finally, for the first time, it's also a good idea to be on top the first time, like cowboy style, it allows you to control the pace at which his penis will enter your anus. You will be able to go as slow as you want.

 

The first time I had it in the bum was really painful but so hot! Haha! I was never penetrated again after that, because I can't handle that pain. Doesn't mix with sex for me. Guys say it feels good after awhile but I'm not willing to endure that for 'awhile' until it does. I've thought about using Nitrous Oxide or Amyl Nitrite to open it up a little (and the first to alleviate the pain while it's happening), but I've never bought that stuff while I had the cash. I should though.

But trust me, it's going to fucking hurt. Lots of lube.

^ He likes it, but I don't.

 

if you feel painfull is mean your top is a bad fucker!
take easy, dont worry and just relax.......is your best way to enjoy.
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