Aight...so I met this babe a while ago and it took me a while but I finally asked her out. But I guess I was really awkward around her, and we only made out once, and that was cause I had to or she'd dump me (she didn't say that, but it was understood on my part) But I was really nervous. Well, she broke up with me(yesterday officially), and we both agreed that there was a lot of pressure on us when we talked about it. But I mean I feel really weird, I love her now. So what should I do? She doesn't go to my schoool, but I was thinking about calling her now and asking her if we can meet on Friday or something. And then there I'll tell her how I feel and the whole bit. But I mean should I do that? Or wait a bit longer?
she gave you an ultimatum to either make-out with her or break-up in the beginning. then she breaks up with you later? over what? if it's because you're awkward then i'd say no way. it seems that she doesn't care as much about you as having her needs fulfilled. my vote is move along there's better out there for you.
You're not in love with her. If you want to forget about a girl (or just girls in general), I'd say that the best thing to do is stop listening to any music about dating, relationships, hook-ups, or romance in general and don't consider trying to get back together with her (in the case of forgetting about girls in general, just don't even bother to get phone numbers or go on dates) or hang out with her. This seems to work for me every time I like a girl. The whole relationship/dating/romance/process leading up to a hook-up/(everything except sex) thing sucks. In my opinion, you'll be better off the sooner you can just forget about girls.
There's a chemical (oxytocin) in the brain which is released every time a couple has sex. It's what creates the emotional bond/attachment between couples (it's present in much larger quantities in women). That is what causes the feeling known as 'true love'. True love comes after, not before sex. This is one reason it's not a good idea to while jacking off think of a girl you're not with. If you can on a psychological level interpret the model as a real woman (this would likely require a homemade movie or one in which the model displays a personality with a lot of non-scripted dialog), it may be possible to use porn to mess up previous bonds. It can work by creating enough competing oxytocin induced attachments that all of them become negligible. Wow... I'm probably really fucked up on all sorts of psychoanalytical levels...
Yea...well, ok, I told her I wanted to talk with her, but ya you guys were right, I'm just a loser who had hoped that he could have kept it goin er whatever.... But ya...maybe I'll think of her when I beat off so I will love her....? No, but seriously that oxytocin stuff...I was happier not knowing about that. Now I'm afraid of hugging people cause it releases that stuff and you trust them more...I dunno. Ya you're fucked up. So ya thanks anyway, I'm a dumbass, thanks for reminding me.
hey D just face the fact that you're 16 and still have a lot of learning to do. this in no way makes you a loser. it seems to me that you're really in touch with what's going on inside. most people can't say that. so things didn't turn out the way you wanted them to with this girl. you're young and there's lots of ladies out there for you. so don't be so hard on yourself. try to find something to keep you busy while you're getting over her. after a while you'll be feeling much better.
i think you should blame this whole thing on lauren! she's the one who insisted that we leave you and katie alone so that you would be forced to makeout with her
ya wtf matey? Laurenq and Marilyn Manson are to blame. Seems they always are... Ya but this thread is pointless now. I'm a dumbass. Er, somin like that. I forgot what conclusion we reached.
woaohh how was that my fault i was just helping out katie cuz at that time i was on team katie so things are a bit more complicated then you know but yea why is it my fault devin i didnt make you do anything you guys could have just cuddled like me and greg did on the park bench i like the rose garden but now no one wants to go back
I go to the rose garden like every other day. I'm fine with it. I don't see what the deal is. I was totally joking, in the words of Robert Plant, "It's nobodies fault but mine," And then, I think he said something like, "Ma-ma-ma-monkeys on my back," but thats not important nor relevant.
hahaha but yea we should totally go i was just in santa barbara and last night we star gazed for liek three minutes while we were waiting for people and it was really nice
you keep blaming yourself. you should be more selfish; put the blame on other people, thats what i always do.
