hi everybody!! okay, so i am going out with the best boyfriend ever! we've been together for 4 months now. i dont know why, but i have a really hard time trusting him. he's never cheated on any of his past girlfriends (he's had 4); he was always the one cheated on. he's really a great guy, i plan to honestly marry him, have kids, the whole deal! i really love him, but i just can't bring myself to completely trust him. i just always have this gut feeling that he's going to cheat on me if he goes out without me. like if he goes to the bar, i think he's gunna grind (dance) with some chick and be flirty and even go home with one. he's so good looking and it just scares me, he has a great personality too and he's very attractive, and it totally sucks cause i know chicks would be all over him i know he loves me, he tells me he'd never cheat on me, and it's like i totally believe him, but then when he goes out i just feel like he's gunna cheat. and he's honestly never done anything to break my trust, ... i just don't know what to do. how can i just trust him?? it's like words aren't enough for some stupid reason. i know it sounds creepy but sometimes i just wish i could attach some camera to him or have someone watch him. i'd obviously never, but it sure would help this trust thing. i've been cheated on before, so maybe that makes me nervous.. i dont know. i was just wondering if anyone has any advice on how you can really trust someone? i guess i should just trust what he says?
Why do you think you were cheated on before? Did you put yourself in a situation or contributed to it somehow?
Stop being so insecure.... don't worry about anything unless you have a reason to, which you say you don't. So really.. that will only turn you into a controlling clingy bitchy girlfriend, honestly. Love yourself and realize that your boyfriend is with you and obviously he is because he wants to be.
