Hi. Im going to be having anal sex for the first time in a few days. In fact it will be my first time will sex at all. we decided this cause her parents won't get her birth control. And I don't want to get her pregnant. I need advice about technique with it, and what household items can I use as lube, etc.. I want this to be good for both of us without hurting her butt. Please I need you guys. thanks
Please, I don't know where to begin with it. i need all the help I can get, I can't go out and buy things so I need household items to use for it. And is first time with no condom bad??
okay, well go buy some lube from the supermarket. you're going to need it. ask her if she'll clean out her butt with an enema the night before. not the same day. this can be irritating for her. if she doesn't want to, then whatever. alright now you might want to eat her out (Pussy!!) and finger her ass or something to get her warmed up and stretch it out. I doubt you have a small dildo that vibrates, but if you do, they're great. Go slow, be gentle. When you go to put your dick in her, go SLOW have you ever had anything in your ass? taken a humungous shit? IT HURTS at first. the pain goes away after like 30 seconds. Just go very slow, use a lot of lube, and have fun!
o,ok. its because I only am aloud to use the car for school because its my parents. and we are gonna do it in the back seat ha. I don't have any time to get any. what else do you recommend?
dude just pick some up after school. also buy some food and bring it home to your parents or something.
ok thanks. are there some lube you can easily find that you would recommend? I don't want to hurt her butt I love it too much
Planned Parenthood will provide free/cheap birth control btw i highly recommend using condoms for anal seriously, youre 18 and unwilling to go buy lube or condoms? if you arent capable of purchasing either of those, you arent capable of handling sex (in my terribly humble opinion at least)
I'm still in highschool in an area that's very religious. its a small town everyone knows everyone else.