older dudes..younger girls

I like older dudes.

 

but really, i can go for anyone whose up for fun times now...whatever happens happens

 

yeah. some people are into that whole "parent/child" thing. personally it makes my skin crawl. but you know, i can deal with people being into that, so long as i'm not involved.

 

and lets just say that older dudes are better in bed. i actaully had an orgasm with him....now thats a first

 

i've found lately i've really hit a cord with the older men
in terms of a few years
i don't know how i could hit a cord with men that were 10 or more years older than me
but it's all possible
i just mean that men that you are attracted to, are men that you're attracted to
theres really no advancement other than that insignificant number
a number is a number
love is love
it doesn't matter
and it spaces boundaries

 

How can you be so liberal with your own relationship but close minded with others? Some people need to fill that void-whether it's having someone to take care andknowing your needed or needing someone to take care of you.

 

Well, to repeat what most people said here. When you are an adult age doesn't matter. Personality does. If you two guys are a good match, who gives a fuck ow old he is.
I have dated people with bigger age differences than that, and never found their age to be as much of an issue as our compatibility.

 

can't help it. i have a friend who can't talk to me because her girlfriend won't let her. i mean, honestly, she keeps trying to talk to me, and keeps getting blocked. i mean, ew. that's entirely too much a "i'm the MAMA and i'm not going to let her talk to you!!" i can't help the fact that i'm about freedom. it grosses me out the same way that people who like to drink shit do.

 

it also seems to be that in the relationships lik ethat that ive been exposed to, there isnt mutual respect. one person respects the parent/authority, the parent/authority simply has a pretty little pet to play with - no respect, just objectification in a really icky way

 

exactly, darling all, exactly. i won't be a toy until i say so, and for a specific period of time. not my thing.

 

the oldest girl i ever dated was 19. well she was 18 at the time and i was 16. and as jerry did say, we had different priorities. we broke it off about a month later and decided to stay friends. but ill be damned if i deny that i still have feelings for her.

p.s. the title made me laugh. i guess because i said it in a very cynical, seductive and pedophilia way.

 

I think there might be a deeper respect for hwat the person has gone through int heir life and why they need to be taken care of. Personally, I am too nuts and emotional to be 50 percent responsible in a relationship. I grew up without a father and don't see anything wrong with who I am with babying me a bit more because of that.

 

well that's just freaking abusive and not at all what I was talking about. I am sorry that I misunderstood what you meant.

 

I was taking care of this nice little 18yr old italian girl when I met my wife, she was very mature for her age.. but she was ...

aww fuck.. I miss that wild little dago ass !!

 

um...i pretty much grew up without a father, or a mother....i am who i am
and that's a fucked up person
i do need taking care of ....

but i think people should learn to live on their own two feet

 

Find an older, divorced man.. with no kids..

Treat him like a king... and you can teach him to be everything you always wanted!

 

The three guys I've dated in the past year were 26, 24 and 26. I'm about a month from being 18.

Only one person ever had a problem with age difference.

Who the hell am I supposed to date? A highschool guy? Good god...

 

You should take the knowledge/experience you learned from the older guys and apply it to a young man you can train.
I'm not saying that you should turn into a dominating bitch, ,, it's just a matter of experiencing what pleases you and teaching the one you are with, how to do it the way you like it..
no matter how old you are,,,
or what sex you are.

Believe me! ..... everybody is looking for a man or woman to show them how to do it better!!

If you find someone who is not open to suggestions.... that's the mo'fo' you throw to the curb !

N_say ... "SEE YA !!"

 

if you're happy, FUCK what other people think!

 

Age isn't even a factor in my mind, people are people... age just gave them more chances to improve, doesn't mean they have taken em

That said, I have always tended to end up with older women.