are girls not attracted to emotional, more needy guys

generally?

it seems mostly they are attracted to the cold macho alpha-male, who usually treats them a hell of alot worse than the humble guy.

just a thought

P.s i know is this is subjective, im just wandering what YOU think.

 

I am attracted to real men - tough and strong on the outside , emotional only in private.
But not too emotional. Men should be men.

 

Needy is not attractive. Good guys are. But as Piaf said, not too emotional...

 

I think confidence is sexy. Neediness, not so much. There isn't anything the matter with being in touch with one's emotional side.

 

I like guys with an emotional side. But it can't be the whole shaboodle!

 

i don't want a guy to be a robot, but i don't wanna change his diapers everyday either. most women will fall in the middle somewhere.

 

I love emotional guys, let me rephrase that, I love emotional people. Being needy is never good, not for a guy or a girl, but being expressive with your emotions is a beautiful thing. I've had guys cry on my shoulders because they were really sad about something or cause of the beauty of a song.

 

Last week one of my guy friends was at a party and wanted me to come to it,, but I was already drinking with my friends and had no ride. The last thing he says to me is "FINE." and that was that. Suddenly I'm trying to find ways to make it up to him to make him happy again.
Will things ever really be equal amongst sexes?
Will we all ever just be able to take the sticks out of our asses that prevent us from sitting back and relaxing?

 

yea this is what i mean kinda.

when people are in touch with their feelings, being needy is a different kettle of fish lol =D

 

yeah. i don't like my men or my women to be emotional black holes, sucking the life out of you with their constant weepiness and needs. but emotional availability is important, even crucial.

 

I love sweet, sensitive, honest, loving guys with a little badass side to them, just like jake. Hes everything i've ever wanted. I hate the muscular, tough, mocho guys that act like there not scared of anything and never cry infront of people.

 

Women are different. Most women prefer someone they can abuse, even if he isn't a macho-male.

 

reflout, i'm seriously going to start a fan club for you. you say the damnedest things.

 

neediness really turns me off. i like guys who can talk about their emotions but only in private. they gotta be tough on the outside.
i also confess to being attracted to cocky showoffs lol

 

nice

but i will add a "most" to the beginning of that statement.

and just say that with every woman ive ever been with this is absolutely true

 

ahahaha. though the sad truth is, people date equal to themselves. subconsiously or consciously. you want a better sort of woman, be a better sort of man. i don't have a lot of pity for women who continually date assholes, i'm not going to have much pity for a man who does the same. suck it up and better yourself. take some responsibility and figure out why you attract the evil assholes of this world and break the habit.

 

oh i know, that why i dont "date" anymore. i just fuck girls at partys. it cuz im a high mach, at least thats what the test says

 

i like men to be strong on the outside and loving in private, men have gotta men, no wimpy weepy worms

 

that's good. a place for everyone and everyone in their place.

 

my boyfriend is a musician the only time ive seen him cry is over moving music (not lyrically musically) But it is wierd for me because Im not emotional or needy....so I need someone not emotional or needy.