Good or bad?

Discussion in 'True Love' started by Autentique, Oct 3, 2007.

  1. Waking Life

    Waking Life Cool looking idiot

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    Love can exist between two 40 year old men.
     
  2. iriegnome

    iriegnome Member

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    How many ways can you say PEDIFILE. This 40 y/o is a sick MF and belongs in jail. I am in my early 40's and my daughter is 13. I would kill the MF.. No if's ands or buts about it.
     
  3. WoodstockChild

    WoodstockChild Intrepid Traveler!

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    haha, so closed-minded.
    You're a deucebag.
     
  4. Waking Life

    Waking Life Cool looking idiot

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    My god the internet is disgusting.
     
  5. pork

    pork Member

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    i am an 18 year old male, and i do, strongly believe in true love, if there is any girls looking for a relationship near sussex in england please get in contact with me, my e-mail address is, simon_albion2@hotmail.co.uk :)
    si
     
  6. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    With the internet, a 40 year old man has the time to plan and edit responces and... convince a 16 year old young woman to leave her home and parents (who love her, but she won't remember that for a couple of more years)

    He (this hypothetical guy, not the OP's true love) also has the opportunity to meet many young women until he happens upon one who responds to his line.

    It's hard to convince a 16 year old that the love she feels is not going to last.

    I hope the OP doesn't take her opportunity to learn things the hard way.

    (Hell, I hope I'm wrong and this guy (not the hypotheical one) is the love of her life and they have a long marriage and many grandchildren. But I won't bet on it.)
     
  7. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

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    But I wasnt talking about me, as you can see Im 21 and I got a boyfriend who's 22.
    I was talking of a case I came to know of and well I wish nothing but good luck and happiness to everyone.
     
  8. Mr. Mojo Risin'

    Mr. Mojo Risin' Senior Member

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    I'll join you.
     
  9. iriegnome

    iriegnome Member

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    You're 16 and don't have a clue. There is nothing right about a grown man trying to date a child. Yes at 16, YOU ARE A CHILD. Falling in love with someone who is your age and growning together is the open minded experience. Falling for a PEDIFILE is wrong without exception.
    You should look to yourself when you start calling people names.
     
  10. repro-bait

    repro-bait a real reprobate.

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    what a LOAD OF EMOTIONAL CRAP YOU PEOPLE TALK.

    a young man with an older woman.....say he is 18 and she is 45.....so ...?
    a young girl, she is 18, he is 45........ ?
    for god's sake. let them enjoy each other.why would you want to intrude!
     
  11. His Eden

    His Eden Queen of Mean

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    The girl in question is 16 not 18. If she is 18 and wants to date a 45 year old it is her choice. At 16 it is illegal for a 45 year old to date her.

    On a personal note.....If a 45 year old man was screwing my 16 year old daughter he would be in a grave or a jail cell depending on who got to him first.
    :behead:
     
  12. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Whether the stupidity mentioned in the OP is legal is less important than the fact that running off with this guy is a real dumb thing to do.
     
  13. MollyBoston

    MollyBoston Fluffer

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    This sounds like an epically terrible idea for nearly unlimited reasons. Top three reasons:

    - The age difference is too great - putting legal questions aside, they're going to be interested in different things.
    - But the legal issues are there for a reason, too.
    - No one should go to live with anyone they've never met in real life. You need to date someone for a long time before taking that leap.

    Jesus, this is a bad idea.
     
  14. BabyMopar

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    Ms. MollyBoston has this one pegged.. it is a very bad idea... not just from the legal and age points of view.. but also because you have to know someone before you live with them
     
  15. whyte_dragonwolf

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    It sounds more like the 40yr old is wanting to manipulate and control a young girl. It is a form of abuse. The 16yr old is too young and has alot of growing up to do. She hasn't even had a chance to expereince all that the world has to offer. The parents should take away her computer and call the cops on this man. This shouldn't be tolerated at all.
     
  16. Hellvis

    Hellvis Senior Member

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    WOW what did i walk into.............i think it's very wrong. 17 is really and i'm sorry to younge to understand love at that level. If it's that deep she should wait till she turns 18 right?
     
  17. weedhopper

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    hes too old but me im only 25
     
  18. Captain Cannabis

    Captain Cannabis Banned

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    Thats fucked up.

    What are people going to think when their in public? They'll think "Oh what a nice a father and daughter" then they'll turn around and see them making out.

    Now thats wrong man. Just plain wrong. Pedophiles :ack: :cuss: :hysterica
     
  19. Mr. Mojo Risin'

    Mr. Mojo Risin' Senior Member

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    soaringeagle, are you fucking kidding me? 16 and 65!?
     
  20. lootfish

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    I can't answer the question, because I don't believe in, or maybe care for, right or wrong all too much. But it depends totally on the individuals, I dont see the age gap as inherently abusive. The law certainly has nothing to do with the original question, just because something is against the law doesn't make it good/bad/whatever. Legalism bugs me. Do people change suddenly on their 18th birthday or something (and only in certain countries of course)? Must've missed that study. Certainly i wouldn't disagree that to me it seems like a stupid thing to do, not having met him in person and all.
     

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