I'm looking for good theories on the development of the self?

MindOS by Dr. Paul Dobransky, M.D. is the best i've found. He's a Unification Theorist based in Chicago (and also has staff working for him worldwide).

MindOS is pretty advanced and has a lot of visual diagrams so that you can map out your mind and build yourself from within.

It blends many theories of psychology into one model and also has roots in buddhism.

From what I've read it took him 10 years of research to put it together.

Very Cool. I Recommend it.

 

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