Hello. Im new here. Im having a problem and i kinda dont know how to deal with it. Im dependent on men. I feel like i have to be with a man all time. ive gone very few time without a man in my life. my dad lived far away from me my whole life. and although he tried i never felt what i think i needed to feel. im lost in a world. so what i would like to know if anyone has been maybe in a similar situation, that maybe i can talk to.
I can understand where you are coming from, In a way I'm quite dependant on Men too, I don't feel safe unless there is a man around, especially when I go to London. After my assault last year I have a really bad need for male company. Which is why I hate bieng single but don't worry you are not alone
Well if you feel as though your safe around men then take up karate lessons or buy a gun. If you like men for the sexual aspect then buy an adult toy. Really we don't offer much beside those two things.
Pharmaphunk has a point. A long, long time ago I realized that I hadn't been without a man in a long time. I felt like you do. I also survived assault, but now I feel the opposite way. I don't feel safer with them around. I don't even want them coming over. Anyway, if you think you just have men around for security, and not love, they can be replaced by pepper spray and adult toys, I suppose. I have been alone for some time and I really enjoy doing things my own way at my house, without someone trying to tell me what to do. (Tells you what kind of men I dated.) You absloutely can take care of yourself. Don't be afraid. You can. You're a grown woman (right?) and you can do it. It sounds like you don't trust yourself. When the day comes that you need to be on your own, you can do it.
Bothers me that a guy as young as you would say that. have the schools really convinced the boys that you are worthless? A toy could never replace the pleasure that you have the power to give a woman...
