I have cybered online at night with random strangers. I find it erotic and fun but embarrassing and I don't tell my husband because I think he would say that I was cheating.
LOL. I was only teasing your paranoia. Never been called a pervert before but I kinda think I like it.
lol just look out for the real perverts. like these guys http://youtube.com/watch?v=L_kADup_wZw&feature=related
try to search for other thing to do at night as reading or sleeping early to get uo early that morning it is a bit hard but try to do that
My opinion: It's harmless. It's text on a screen. Who gives a fuck? Other people's possible opinion: It's mental unfaithfulness. What's worse, having a pure physical encounter or being with someone in your mind? Another perspective: I you need to seek the mental intimacy of others, maybe your marriage isn't as healthy as it could be. Perhaps you could work on this along with your husband?
I like the idea of cybering. Unfortunately most guys are fucking TERRIBLE at it, so it usually ends up just being frustrating. Here's the typical cyber attempt: Me: I slide down onto my knees, looking up at you as I slowly lick your cock Some guy: haha awesum Me: What do you do? Some guy: fuk Greeeeaaaaat, thanks.
id go it out on webcam but id prob be like that some guy lmao. nah a fair step up iv done it before. Its good fun nothing to be asshamed of.