things women love to hear

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  1. stacymilberg

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    Things That Women Love To Hear
    Author: Rahul Rungta
    Women always crave for real admiration. She doesnt want to be complimented for something that she doesnt have in her. Have you ever wondered what stirs women the most? Yes, you are righther mans words. But, what kind of words?

    Things That Women Love To Hear
    Have you ever wondered what stirs women the most? Yes, you are righther mans words. But, what kind of words?

    Most women crave for compliments than anything else. Nothing can surpass those genuine and honest words of compliments that you whisper into the ears of your ladylove. A flattering remark at the right time, at the right place, by the right person and in the right way can create sheer magic. But, your admiring comments must not sound fake or superficial. And remember; never go over the top with your accolades. Otherwise, your romantic date can get marred.

    In the beginning, keep your compliments subtle. For instance, you can admire the color of her clothes or rave about the dish she has cooked for you. Keep away from sexual comments at the start of your relationship. Otherwise, she may feel insulted.

    As your association grows, you can opt for more sensual compliments. She will feel aroused if you praise her hairstyle and perfume. But, the time has not yet come to pass on overtly sexual remarks.

    Once your relationship gets steadier, you can cross the threshold of Danger Zone. If you have that feeling that the girl is all yours, you can resort to compliments that are directly sexual or related to various body parts of the lady. You can say a word or two on her legs or fingers.

    It is always guaranteed that the heart of a woman always melts hearing the words Beautiful, Gorgeous, Pretty etc. So, keep uttering them regularly. Make her feel special by saying You look stunning tonight or other such lines.

    While getting intimate with her in bed, keep on murmuring words of praise. Hot compliments like I like the smell of your body or your skin is satin-smooth will surely make her turned on. Say these words in your own way. She will get floored in seconds.

    Women always crave for real admiration. She doesnt want to be complimented for something that she doesnt have in her. So, be careful before praising her.

    Sometimes, remind her of the special place she has in your heart. But, dont repeat these things too often. It may ruin the whole situation.

    Tell her why she is different from other girls. But, dont make her feel like an extraterrestrial object.

    Dont carry on shooting one-way compliments for too long. Instead, try to converse with her on some general topic, because most women love to chat. Insert your kind words in between the discussion.

    Say her that you go gaga over certain behavioral traits of hers. For example, you may tell I love the way you wear your scarf or your dance movements make me crazy.

    Telling her that she has great skills in bed definitely gives her a high. Saying things like Last night, you were just like a tigress will leave her blushing.

    Besides raving about her physical attributes, if you point out her mental assets through your compliments, then she will surely be more than happy. Just say Youre such a smart girl! spontaneously and it will make her day.

    A woman always tries to find her best friend in her lover. If you acknowledge her as your best friend, then she will be on the 7th seven.

    Hail your girl as the most important thing in your life. It will make her flattered.

    Assure her by saying I will never cheat on you. These lines help in building trust, which is essential in a relationship.

    Let her know that she is indispensable in your life. Once she is convinced that you need her more than anything else, she will embrace you with all her love and affection.

    Though quite a few men feel tongue-tied before uttering the three simple words I love you, theres hardly any other line that has a better effect on the women-folk. This one sentence, if sounds genuine, makes a woman go weak in their knees immediately.

    Always try to tickle her funny bone with your jokes and one-liners. Most women yearn for a hubby who is high in humor quotient. So, make her giggle all the time with your gags.

    Make her aware that she is more than a pretty face. Say her that you are besotted with her personality rather than her looks.

    Compliment on her intelligence. Applaud on her way of handling a crisis.

    Tell her she is your pillar of strength. Appreciate her by saying, You are the one who always brings out the best in me.

    Keep an eye on every detail of her clothes, accessories and make-up. Appreciate on the most trivial things like the color of her nail polish.

    Emphasize on her sexual attractiveness. She may not be an Angelina Jolie or Nicole Kidman. But, you can definitely make them feel that way.

    Tell her that she will become a great mom someday. Hearing this, she can be the happiest person on earth, because the ultimate dream of every woman is to become a mother.

    But keep in mind; all the words that you pour into her ears should carry some amount of respect. You must also mind your body language while showing your appreciation and dont shower compliments just for the heck of it!

     
  2. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    :puke:
    This is dumb. I'm all for making my women feel good, but these are instructions on how to worship. Clearly written by a woman without a clue, and if you apply these as rules in a relationship that shit will crash and burn.
     
  3. myself

    myself just me

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    Perhaps this is the best thing said but unfortunately not practised much in the article. Lol.
    Way too much compliments. It would make me suspicious if someone behaved like that with me or perhaps I'd end up finding the situation hillariously comical, if I may say so...
     
  4. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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    prolly just depends on the woman. contrary to popular belief, we are not all identical pod creatures.
     
  5. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    i do this for my husband, it seems to work for him, too. people need love, affection, and occaisionally, when the world is draggin them down, some freaking reassurance. it's not hard. it's not worship, i lose nothing by giving him this.
     
  6. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    i'd rather have some kind of comforting physical touch or caress than a million compliments
    i enjoy silence
    the last person i was in bed with kept trying to compliment me, and it ruined it
    i enjoy compliments sure, but every compliment someone gives me makes me more aware of myself, thus making me self-conscious .. but maybe that's me
     
  7. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    oh, yeah. people always wanting to make us women into one big homogenous blob of agreement and unity. there's a few things you can't get past, though, is giving love, trust, appreciation, patience, etc.
     
  8. WhisperingWoods

    WhisperingWoods too far gone

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    ". . . the ultimate dream of every woman is to become a mother."

    aha! funny.

    thanks for the blatant generalizations, Rahul.
     
  9. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    whats wrong with wanting a few compliments from time to time? dude aint saying you need to compliment a chick every 5 min, but theres enough variety there that a guy can pick and choose what type of compliment best fits with his partner and their relatioship
    i like getting complimented from my bf. especially if i take care to dress up a little extra, i want him to notice and acknowledge that he noticed that im extraspecially hot that day. "you look beautiful" is only 3 words, aint that hard to say now and then (aagin, not saying eveyr single day, but now and then its really nice)
     
  10. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    Sure. People need love and affection, encouragement and reassurence. But this scribble is about complimenting at the slightest opportunity, constant reminders of her immeasurable physical beauty and superhuman intelligence. Would you really respect someone who spouted all this groveling bullshit? I wouldn't. In fact, if I had a girlfriend treat me according to these principles, I would lose respect and find someone else.

    Now, if the author had restricted herself to the first paragraph, I would be all agreeance. Those are great things to keep in mind. The rest of it basically contradicts the first paragraph, and some of it is downright stupid.
     
  11. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    Isn't this pretty much obvious treatment of the average woman?
     
  12. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    Things women love to hear:

    1)No I dont mind if you eat cakes and chocolate all day and get fat.
    2)Yes Id love to miss the football and go shopping with you.
    3)Yes I like cooking too.

    And the things I'd just as sooner say as those say above:-
    1)I'm gonna cut my dick off and wear a dress.
    Rant over:)

    BTW I dont think all women like the obvious compliments.
    A gorgeous girl gets bored with the "oh youre so beautiful" - and it looks wooden.
    I think a girl would rather hear things that compliment against her insecurities than constant flattery
     
  13. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    we wish. lol.
     
  14. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    ahahahaha.
     
  15. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    I blame you guys (or gals rather) for not demanding higher of your men. So many of you opt to be abused by dirtballs (particularly at younger ages) rather than reserve yourself for the gentlemen. Now, whether you want to blame your obscure estrogenic minds is your choice.
     
  16. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    and i blame many of you men for chasing bitches then blaming the rest of us who are trying to be gentle for the miserable states of their lives.

    my husband is a fucking joy. he's my best friend, drinking buddy, lewis to my clark in sexual exploration and he thinks i'm really cool, too.
     
  17. reflout

    reflout Banned

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    Call her a bitch and a slut.

    You'll be far more often right than wrong :)
     
  18. reflout

    reflout Banned

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    I don't know... your husband chased a bitch.
     
  19. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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    man, it must suck to be a hater.
     
  20. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    you're such a dear dear man.
     

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