mamaKCita, I guess that’s question that you'll have to answer for yourself. Just ask yourself, do I like men who have masculine qualities or do I prefer men who have feminine qualities? If the latter, then it’s a good chance you may be a man hater. And it really doesn’t have much to do with how you treat them or what you do for them. As you know people can be two faced and act like they like you but really don’t. (The book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, has some interesting thoughts about the differences between men and women, not that they apply to everyone.)
i'm definitely not a hater. though one does wonder how other people perceive their personality. i like my men manly and my women lovely. and squishy. if i wanted to marry a woman, i'd have married one.