Okay, So I've known this guy for about 2 or 3 years, true, I was attracted to him, but never told him. This past summer, he told me that he was attracted to me. So things heated up, but I didn't let it go all the way because, I am a virgin. So I told him, and he seemed okay with it, but he also told me that he has never been with a virgin. Well a couple of months pass, and we get to talking again. He asked me if I regret what I did that night, and I tell him no. I actually thought about giving it up to him, but one night all of a sudden he changes his mind, saying that he didn't intend on taking anything from me, and that it wasnt meant like that,even though, he did make it clear in past conversations that he wanted to. So what should I do/say?
Don't do anything. If this guy really REALLY likes you he will be patient and will wait until you will be completely ready. Loosing virginity is important for most of the girls and all of them want it to be special and with a special one. Not at the back seat of the car ot whatsoever. AND... this is how to tell you the THING of the guys to say he didn't mean it, this way he will make YOU to beg him to actually have sex with you. Just a lil trick. Bad one, but it always works. So, just do it, whenever you feel 100% sure in a person. Nobody likes to be used. AND, believe me, many guys say like they have never been with a virgin, if even they did, to make it sound like you are very special. Well, actually, you are. Just be very careful. It would suck if someone would hurt you
