to masterbate or not to masterbate

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Dude, when she told you she "wasn't that sexual" and "probably wouldn't do it," she was sending you a pretty clear message that she's not interested in you. You need to stop doing this. You're almost certainly grossing her out, and you're probably real close to getting slapped with a sexual harassment charge, which will make you unemployed.

You're probably just posting your fantasies anyway, in which case fine, but if you're doing this for real it's creepy and gross and you should stop.

 

i forgot to mention that one time i looked over at her, she was lying on her back with her eyes closed toward me, normally she lies very still but i noticed she has started to mover her legs and feet around allot IMO think she is touching herself through her pants it seems to me, one time i saw her move her feet so i moved mine and she stopped and then we both took turns doing it for about 30 seconds

 

I seriously doubt it.

 

Keep this up and when they throw you out on your ass, your reputation will be so ruined not even McDonald's will hire you.

Okay?

LQ

 

i think she may be intersted in just watching me....cuz i think she was the other morning and i hear that girls say that watching a guy masterbate is fun and totally harmless

 

It's happened to me before that a dude jerked off while I was in the room and he thought I was asleep... it was horribly, horribly uncomfortable for me. I felt violated. Just because you're turned on and want her to be, doesn't mean that she is. Stop it. Jerk off in the privacy of your own home.

 

All you gotta do is to fuck her. I just wonder why you didn't do it before when you saw her touch herself.

 

hasnt any of you girls heard of mutual masterbation?....obviously not....anyways..guess what....she asked me if i was masterbating this morning and i said yes....she then said thats hot and said she wanted to watch....i flipped the cover off and shot the biggest load in quite sometime....i kept going at it..she came over sat down next to me pulled down her pants and we just layed next to eachother masterbating..it was awesome...i recommend everyone try it....its so cool just to watch eachother go at it and be rubbing up against eachother at the same time.....if she wants to do it again im gonna ask her if she wants to try to cum together!

 

Okay, he's just making stuff up. We can stop worrying about him creeping his poor coworker out in real life.

Witkacy - me too. Once in college I was kinda seeing this guy, but I was about to break up with him because he was an ass...anyway, he came into my room drunk as hell one night and tried to wake me up for sex, and I just pretended to be really asleep hoping he'd go away. Instead, he jerked off on my back. It was awful. I mean, I actually get turned on by being "used"...but only when I want to be, by people I choose. It was just a horrible thing. What a creep.

 

......seriously =/

 

it seems to me that the majority of guys would be into it and a minority of girls would be into it. i guess most girls are sexually reserved, but some aren't. what I don't know is whether the more uninhibited girls are generally outspoken with it, and whether there are girls who are admittedly reserved but will become less inhibited through some type of persuasion. the latter is probably a lot more exciting

 

It's not about being sexually reserved. It's about consent. I'm no blushing virgin, believe me - but that doesn't mean I want to engage in sexual acts with everyone on the planet. I have sex or masturbate with or give spankings to those people whom I choose. If someone tries to involve someone else in sexual acts when the other person has not shown interest and given consent, that's harassment at the very least. Even s/m rape scenes are based on the fact that the sub actually does want it, and is in control at all times and can stop the action with a simple safe word if they stop feeling okay. I'm not saying mutal masturbation can't be fun and exciting - but it should be clear that both people want it.

Sorry that happened to you, MollyBoston. What an asshole.