going up to complete stranger, anyone done it here?

Im curious to see whether any of you here have gone up to and asked a girl/guy out after just seeing them for less than 5 minutes somewhere. Like someone who damn wow that person is really good looking and just gone up to them and bam tried to hook up with them.

And no, knowing the person AT ALL does not count. I would truly be interested to hear from someone on these boards who has actually done that, doesnt matter whether it succeeded or not, im just curious as to what it was like and if it was painfull or not that bad or what, and especially how the heck did you have the courage to do it lol.

 

I'd like to know about this too.
I might try that with someone random tomorrow, see how it goes, and then post back.

 

Cmon surely some of you who claim to be free lovers or just you hardcore open-minded ppl where are yall at?

 

damn... I didn't have the balls to do it.
For christ's sake..... $%^&*(

Good thread. I hope someone who has experience with this shit will post up and talk about this stuff.

 

haha yeah, Ive just asked girls for their numbers, and most times I get them. I dont even consider myself to be that great looking. Whats sad about this is that I text with them for a day or two, then I dont ever talk to them again. I really just text them to see if it is a real number. I dont think this is how true love is really found.

 

awww texting is cheating lol, but eh atleast one person so far

 

dude,,, getting the number is the hard part. Call 'em up and ask for a date. It's so fuckig easy. Getting the number is the hard part.

 

Well, I met a cute male model at a concert two years ago, and we kissed an an hour later.

 

no meetup afterwards? just a kiss? i mean thats alot of accomplishment for an hour heh but an hour of talking to em sorta counts as somewhat knowing em over 5mins or so

 

I also had sex with a guy on my cruise, about 3-4 days after meeting him. It was fun, but that's just not my modus operandi. Casual sex isn't my thing.

 

ha ha.
you cant be scared to get shot down.
I sometimes try to size up a chick.
there was one time i was shooting pool in the neighborhood clubhouse and there
was a chubby girl there, she wasnt all that pretty but I said, what the hell, let me try and get some head from her.
5 minutes later I was poking her brain with my shaft of fury in the weight room downstairs. ha ha. that was cool.
I got her to slob me up a few times after that also.
she was a champ who loved to swallow massive globs of hot steamy man chowder.
But no joke, it was no more than 2 or 3 minutes after i initially approached her, she was slobbing me.

 

hah dang thats awesome

 

just hold it while he was peeing? i mean did u do anything or just hold it rofley???!@

 

coffee shop. early evening.
girl walks in, our eyes meet.....we look away.....she buys.....i'm sitting.
she sits, smiles...i smile back.
i finish coffee......she sees this......i begin to return cup and plate......she gathers her bag and stands.....i walk out.she follows. my car is close.....i walk to it......get in...she walks toward me......i open the door.....she gets in......no word spoken......i drive off......
nothing said.......i drive to a secluded street.
she says......sorry, time of the month.....unzips my pants, takes me in her mouth.
when i'm, done...i zip up.drive back to town drop her off.
never see her nor hear of her again.
fact.

 

I had sex with 3 women on a cruise ship, after meeting all of them that same day. Those are my only experiences with casual sex, and I did it all within a few days time. I think something about being out at sea and being very drunk made it all possible. Its not exactly the same as seeing someone in your hometown, someone you may have to see again and gettin the balls up to make a move. If I do that, I usually just shoot the breeze until she gives me some kind of opening, and then Ill ask her out or whatever. Its not too difficult, just dont worry about it and do it.

 

wait repro bait, are you serious?? thats insane

 

thats bad ass.

 

That's a sweet story, repro.
The most beautiful girl I ever slept with was within like 30 minutes of meeting her. Other than that I've had lots of drunken random encounters, but I don't often approach someone while sober. The times I have, it's been with limited success..

But the only thing keeping me or anyone else from approaching anyone we like the look of are our own mental barriers. Fear of rejection, social conditioning, etc. Most people enjoy talking to others. Why not just go for it? What's the worst that could happen?

 

Years ago, I was in New Orleans for New Year's. It had just rung midnight, and I had no one to kiss. I saw this girl flashing a huge group of black guys on the street. She was short and a little thick, and had some amazing tittayz. I told her I had no one for a midnight kiss and offered some beads for a smooch. She also had no midnight kiss, so I grabbed her, pressed my lips to her and bent her back. The guys were whooping and cheering. She got into it. Tongues were probing. It went on for about 10 full seconds. Then I brought her up, gave her some beads and a thank you. She thanked me, and I walked away.

 

Since then, there have been some pretty quick hook-ups...some less than 5 minutes after saying hello...But none made for really interesting stories or good memories.