Smart Girl vs Slut Girl

I'm torn between two girls at the moment.

One is very perspicacious, and has clever way of carrying herself. I really do like her but it seems like I'm the one who is always having to structure things between us, she never seems to phone me, IM me, or talk to me unless I instigate it. She is very close kept and has this annoying unnecessary angst, very drama queen like.

Girls number two is quite hot, slutty, and definetly wants me. However she is very dumb and we have no similiar intrests. Talking with her is very boring and is always about nothing.


I'm leaning towards girl 1, shes intensly intresting and very "real", it will require more effort and may not end up for long. Whereas Girl 2 will be definate with lots of fucking, but no real connection of anything beside the anatomy.

Discuss experience with taking the smart girl over the slut girl and vice versa.

 

why not just ask the first one out?
thats always one way of getting someone to talk to you more

 

is both an option?

 

me now says girl #2

me 2 years ago says #1

although i have no interest in anything girlfriendish atm, if i ever change my mind i will want someone who i can have a(n) (intelligent) convo with. i too am growing sick of dumbass bitches, it makes a relationship based on sex alone, and thats only healthy if its an open relationship

 

I say girl #2 for as long as it lasts

 

All of my ethics aside, girl #2 until you get sick of her (to get the need out of your system), then girl #1.

 

just use girl #2 and get more experience w sex and then blow away girl #1 when you finally get with her so she will never leave you

 

girl 1.

 

girl 1... "those who fake..they break"

remember that.

 

girl 1, if you cant talk to somebody it will get old fast

 

women at that age are mostly stupid - go with #2, in a decade or two go for a #1

 

Consider this:
Are you REALLY attracted to Girl One for who she is? Or just because you can't have her?
I think that perhaps, may be why the hotter girl is less attractive to you... because you KNOW she wants you. You think the fun of playing the game is over with. Think if the hot girl never spoke to you, and how much more you would want her.

There's a psycological name for why these feelings happen, unfortunately, I can't remember what it is, or where/who I read it from.

 

when i know a girl wants my nuts...to me the game has just begun

 

Go for #2 for now but still try your game on #1. I wouldnt doubt that the smart girl is a freak in bed just waiting to be unleashed.

 

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#2 as someone already said for as long as you can stand her. I went out with a smart angsty girl for most of highschool and while she did turn out to be a freak in the sack eventually there was a lot of bullshit of hers to deal with. slutty girls are just way more fun. By senior year a lot of girls wanted me because they had seen how i treated this girl so when we did breakup I was in for a hell of a ride. Live a little then go for the smart girls

 

do whatever feels right to you.. if it's a connection you want go for #1, if it's sex then #2..

 

Perspi-what now?

Honestly, neither of them sound all that great...but Slutty Girl has zero chance of lasting with you. You can't stay with someone who's not as smart as you - it just doesn't work. Smart Girl, on the other hand, might kinda open up when she gets comfortable with you, and you might find that there's more to her than you knew. (Or not, of course. And I do hate dramatic people...)

I'd fuck Slutty Girl until you get bored, which shouldn't take long, and then give Smart Girl a shot. (But like some others have pointed out, you didn't say whether you're actually attracted to Smart Girl - if you're not, don't try to force it because it won't work.)

 

Different strokes for different folks and such, but for me being with a girl who is boring & you can't have good conversations with seems kind of pointless.

 

Is girl 1 still physically hot? Cuz if she is you should totally go for her. She's probably just shy. A lot of cool girls are because they don't get all the attention. Even the really hot ones.