They only way to find a free spirted woman is to just look... every lady has there own thing going on... you just need to go out and meet people that is the only way to meet someone.. take a chance. dear to dream and go for it... like can only get better not worse
I think a lot of us feel weighed down by women. I'm not the OP but let me share my inanities: Some women I meet seem to want me to change in the direction of social adaptability. Some other women think of relationships along the lines of foreverness, undiluted happiness, and the paradisiacal. They may or may not suspect paradise can be a very clautrophobic place indeed.
yeah, i can relate. some guys are like that too. like the ones who expect a woman to look 16 for the rest of her life. if that isn't expecting "foreverness, undiluted happiness, and the paradisiacal", i dunno what is, lol. just move on when you encounter those attitudes. life truly is too short.
The aging issue is a compromise. I won't cease to adore the bodies of women in their youth period. Before I engage in a commitment, I'm making sure she knows that we are in it for reasons other than sexual excitement. That's one thing that weighs me down: the pressure to be sexually excited indefinitely. So...I'll accept that you no longer look like 16. But you'll have to accept that I will not be sexually excited about you till death do us part and that means we'll share a different kind of appreciation for one another.
Just look eventually you will find someone. Theres not a specific place to look but you should look at places where you mostly go and have an interest in.
I've actually been wondering about this myself as most girls I meet around here (northern Sweden) are either slaves to the latest trends, metal-heads all dressed in black or the kind of girl who chases after anyone who listens to rap and wears name-brand baggy pants. Well, there are those who are quite free-spirited and interesting but I've found most of those have political agendas that don't match mine (completely anti-drugs and anti-alcohol or otherwise very radical in ways that I don't agree with). I suppose women have the same problem us men have, finding someone intelligent, funny and well-tempered with an interesting and unique personality is probably hard enough without also "demanding" they like the dead and hanging out in the woods smoking weed while contemplating the meaning of life, how to accomplish world peace and all those questions... Just gotta keep looking.
For me the best way to find more free spirited people was to find more of a free spirit within myself. They'll pop up everywhere when you least expect it once you find it in yourself. By the way Lady of the Freaks, you're hysterical, I love your posts. I actually tend have really good chemistry with older women. I LOVE older women because, based upon my experience, they tend to know more of what they want. A lot of the illusions of life are or have fallen away and they tend to be more free with their sexual expression.
