ok well there are 2 girls that i basicly grew up with.1 wich we will call girl A,is very beautiful but we dicided that we dont wanna risk the friendship we have with a realationship.her sister (girl B) i never really thought about a relationship with.well A says i should hook up with her sister and B says i should hook up with A. well a few minutes ago i get an IM from B asking me if i love her.so i ask in what way.she says however.so i said "of course i love you,i kinda hafta".she asks if it was like brother/sister.so i explained how.and she kept going on and on about in what way do i love her.asked if it was like what everybody else is saying.then i told her to be more specific cuz i dont know exactly what everybody is saying.i asked if she was talking about a relationship type thing and said that i would give it a try if thats what she is asking.so she asked if i was "in love" with her.and i said no.then she just signed off. oh boy what did i get myself into??????im not even stoned yet!!
life is fucking short!! get whatever you can NOW and forget about all this brother sister love with girls! if you like her do it,because she most likely wants it too!
ya are you sure your 29? seems more like 14/15. if you dont love her in a relationship manner, tell her, if you do, tell her. "love" is a strong word and people (girls) tend to through it around really easily. theres a big difference between liking and loving.