is that cheating?

Okay well girls probably cheat on guys the same amount as guys cheat on girls, didn't mean to make that a huge point, just saying people cheat.
To the people who say it isn't cheating, etc, do you ever think if your g/f or b/f did that to you? how you would feel if they were kissing another guy/girl? if you say you wouldn't care, you obviously have no respect for yourself and their way of treating you.
i think that if you're with somebody, you're WIth somebody, and you and them Only share things like kissing and so on.
Anywaysss im out

 

The problem is what u dont know wont /shouldnt hurt you.
( eg lapdancers I went out with- we would talk in a limited way about work)

I mean should he go and tell her like a Catholic going for "absolution from his sins"?
ie purely so he feels better?

eg if u think your friend looks ugly and she asks , would u say "sure u look horrible"?
Sometimes the truth just damages things.
Not that I can defend getting off with another in any way whatsoever.

 

yes the truth damages things sometimes, but this situation is totally different than telling your friend she is ugly.
anyways, if he doesn't tell his girlfriend, hopefully she finds out anyways, because a jerk like that most likely doesn't deserve her. (as long as she's never cheated on him)
and yes, the truth would hurt her, but it would show her what kind of person he really is, which he obviously doesn't want to show her. he knows he's done something wrong, and it pisses me off that he doesn't have the balls to tell her. pussy!!! lol. you need an honest relationship.

 

I don't see how someone else kissing you, given that you didn't initiate the kiss, is cheating- especially if it caught you off guard. There are different types of kisses; I don't even know if the OP clarified what type of kiss it was. As I said before, I kissed couples before and they did not consider it cheating. Sometimes, people allow their partners the freedom to make out w/ other people and it isn't cheating. To say that the OP is guilty of cheating w/o knowing all the facts is rather pointless; the OP knows deep down if he cheated or not.

I can honestly say that my fiance kissed another girl while we were together & I did not consider it cheating after I found out it was a peck when he was drunk. When I first heard about it, he told me that he made out w/ this chick, but it turns out that it was what he thought happened, not what actually happened. If a girl kisses him, not a big deal- when it gets more physical than that, then I have a problem.

Peace and love