Let me start by saying my wife and I have been married for 8 years and have had an open and erotic love life. Before our child was born 6 years ago we enjoyed analsex often and her girlfriend [yes she is bi] would also play with her ass. read down the page to answer why I changes the title Now, post child, I cannot seem to get her back i nthe groove. Even after a few drinks she feels I am tool big and it hurts her. She still oves anal so I used a silicone dildo we have that is smaller than me. It is purple and 7 inches long and 1 1/2 wide. She loves that. What do I do to get her used to me again? I would love to be the one making her make those noises during anal and not just the dildo.
do you want to get her back into the grove of traditional sex or anal? my bf is the 2nd partner i've had and considerably larger than my first. he really had to work with me, we took our time, and after a few tries the pain was only during the first insertion and then subsided immediately afterwards. i don't have alot of experiences with anal. anal freaks me out a bit. i think brokeback mountain scared half the women in america, including myself. but i think a little willingness and practice should do the trick. oh yeah, and use a TON of lube. even if she's naturally wet, use a little more. it really does help.
I am in a similar situation. My wife used to ask for anal, and now she isnt interested in it at all. She wont explain why, she just says that she doesnt want to do it. Of course, I dont get oral anymore either, even though I go down on her almost every time we make love. It really sucks for me since I find anal far more pleasurable than anything else. I wish I had some advice to give you, but I dont. All I can say is that I wish my wife would at least let me play with her ass like yours does.
I f I get any advice I will pass it on. Girls what does it take to get you interested in anal again, if you can answer?
What about trying exactly what you did the first time? Well, whenever I want anal from my gf, I usually get her extremely worked up and horny then I ask her as seductively as I can how she'd like to feel me fucking her ass. She just melts when she hears that. Hope this helped.
try using a slightly bigger toy and then work your way slowly up fotm there(i mean a slightly bigger one then another bigger one) get my drift
chin- This thread is illustrative of why I have completely given up on my marriage. I love my wife, I truly do. But we make love 3 or 4 times a month. I cant live like this. Out of those 3 or 4 times a month, I get to MAYBE acknowledge her butt is there once, Chin, I dont mean to hijack your thread. Maybe the mods can move it to its own. Right now I am too drunk to really think. My wife is so gorgeous its insane, but even though every other aspext of our marriage is more perfect than I could have ever imagined, our sex life is non-existent. I dont even know what to do anymore. I wish, like you, I could say I at least got to play with her butt. As it stands, she comes to bed everynight woth a perfect body, gorgeous hair, gorgeous skin, and smelling wonderful, and I cant make love to her. She just wants to sleep. How am I ever suposed to remain faithful like this???? All I want is my wife, but all i get her id every week or less.
No worries on the hijack....lets chat about this....My wife and I have gone through this ourselves a few years ago and it was aweful. I will really have to think what the hell was going on to key you in, but suffice it to say it sucked. Tell us a little more and maybe one of us, or one of our female readers can help?
Think this is your best bet. No EXP in this subject at all, but this makes alot of sense. Get a couple of slightly larger purple ones and slowly work your way up(pun intended :jester: )
