Ok, my girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 months now. I'm Truly in love with her and she feels the same. But we're both virgins, and lately we've been talking about making love. But I love her alot and I REALLY don't want to hurt her (physically). Now we've done alot without actually having sex. But I was wondering if there was anyway to take her virginity without hurting her, or at least minimizing it. If anyone knows of any, please tell. Ty
Unless she's different than almost all other virgin females, the first time is going to hurt to some extent no matter what, its part of life. Besides your the male heh it's she that would need to worry, if at all, about the pain, you worrying about it aint gona help the situation. I'm unaware if this would work but her being high during her first time could possibly help get rid of some of the pain, although not all for sure, unless it's like, extacy or something lol...
it probably wont hurt her man. if youve dont other shit with her [fingering dildos or whatever] it most prolly wont hurt.. unless you have a 10 inch dick that is as wide as a fat cucumber
im virgin, but i beleve that the pain is less if u are in true love and if that happends if she really wants that... if she is shure, she going to be relaxed... anyway...just try to relax her.. masage or something... just dont push her... let her to do what she want..
ehhhhh I really doubt being in "true love" is going to make much difference at all when it comes to a physical pain such as a female loosing her virginity. I'm not a female, but im pretty sure its not the type of thing that you can just wish away with your passion. I've never, EVER heard of a female virgin loosing her virginity and not being in some level of pain, no matter how "in love" she seems to be. Also, a virgin girl is not likely to have attained "true love". Its like saying a level 1 in a video game has somehow skimmed to the last boss on the first try, not exactly realistic...
This reminds me of woman I once knew. She wanted to loose her virginity, so she went to a college party, picked up a guy and did it. She made sure that she was on top and in control of what went where and how quickly. No noticable pain.
I didnt have any pain my first time, it just didnt feel like much, forplay is a must though and make sure you use protection, you can get preggo the first time.
Which is how you make things like me! Haha. Make sure she's completely relaxed, because if she's nervous, her muscles will tighten and that will cause more pain. And tell her to breath, of course. If she holds her breath, that's just as bad.
As most women use tampons these days. Something will have been in before your dick so shouldnt hurt too much.I cant remember it being sore first time.. (long time ago though).
Yup, it hurt. He was a LOT bigger than a tampon and it took a couple of times before it didn't hurt like hell. All women are different, and feel varying degrees of discomfort. Just realize it "might" hurt, and don't think slamming it in will make it the pain stop faster. Keep her (and you) sober so her head is in the right place. Go slow, and if it doesn't work out the first time try again later. Your both virgins, so explore and have fun. Her being REALLY turned on will help too. Oh, and don't forget...sex is supposed to be fun!
Relax, she may have even already lost her hymen, and then you are worrying for nothing. Alot of girls these days do lose a portion, if not all, just from "activities" like fingering, inserting certain objects, even tampons can break the seal. Don't worry about it, just take it easy at first. You should do that anyways. Good luck.
i broke my hymen from fingering ages before i had sex and the sex was totally painless, i got mild soreness after and bit of bleeding tho, think hymen hadnt fully gone or something but i didnt feel it till the next day XD dont worry bout the pain tho, its really not enough to worry about lol
Do it in the missionary position with a pillow under her butt, and make sure her vagina is well lubricated with KY jelly. Use a lubricated condom, and have a towel under her in case her hymen breaks and there is blood.
Actually I disagree (from my own experience). I know how nervous I was and had heard "the pain only lasts a second" and tried to rush and it hurt like hell so I stopped and refused to try again for a couple weeks. For me it worked better for him to be on top and ease me into it. I didn't have to worry about not knowing what to do, and that really helped me relax.
