Sexual anxiety..due to past situation

Here's the low down...of sorts...while down...(and low) ..My boyfriend slipped.....in an unintentional anal...way and caused me heaming amounts of pain, before this happened I never thought twice....sex was free.....no worries...just...so good....Now I have this anxiety thats surfaced due to a particular incident...I know it's fustrating for him. But he really hurt me before..and I just am not wanting that kind of pain again....but I dont want my sex life to suffer for it. Would anyone know if there are positions (aside from me being on top) that allow for the least amount of slippage on his part? Any strange ones i might haven't heard about even? Just at first...just wanna ease myself back from the mental pain.
Im getting sick of the....waaaaaaait. unsexy...."watch it"...

Juuust a little psycologically irked.
Worries dont belong in the bedroom..

much thanks.

 

Ouch, that does sound painful and surprising. You on top would be the best position but it sounds like you already realized this and want alternatives.

I wonder what position you were in when this occured. Doggy or another rear-entr seems to be the position where there is the most chance of slippage, so to speak.

Missionary is good, not much slippage there. Any of the ones where you're on your back with him on top of you will make it difficult for him to slip into your tush just by virtue of how the penis is angled. If it slips out it will slip out and up. I quite like putting my ankles on his shoulders, which brings my tush into the air a little bit up to meet him.

Spooning is a good one, it would be difficult for a slip to do that. Scissors too.

 

I'd also recommend that because neither of you is forced into the other, so there's all kinds of control and stability there.

 

I don't really know what you mean by 'slippage', but I'm guessing you mean he slipped into your anus while you were 'having sex'. Excuse my ignorance, I'm new here.

If so:

It seems to me that the best way to get over this anxiety is to get into anal sex. Many people think it's the best, but I've had reports that it does take some getting used to - on both sides - so you'll have to dream up a fun little schedule of daily achievement.

This slippage may just turn out to be nature's way of guiding you.

I'm not a fan myself - so I'm not proselytizing, here - it's just an idea that might work for you.

 

it's all good beings of the web....
thanks...for hearing me vent.
Exploration of free has begun yet again.