All my friends are getting sent away to rehab...

In the past month, three of the people I know have been either sent away to rehab or to boarding school, two of them for weed/alcohol and one for cocaine.

And now my best friend is going to do outpatient rehab, and if she doesn't get clean in outpatient (which I'm pretty sure she wont), they're going to put her inpatient.

They dn't even seem that upset about it, I guess everyone's getting to the point where they realize they need to get their act together since this isn't working out for them.

I went to rehab for speed/alcohol/weed/suicide risk for a month this summer and now I just mainly smoke weed and drink and do some other shit here and there but I'm not ready to give it up yet and it seems like everyone else is.

Fuck dude, I know everything is better in moderation but I personally like this lifestyle and I don't want to change.

When my friends come back they're going to be clean and different and I'm still going to be a fuck up.

What the fuck do I do???

There is no way I'm letting my parents send me to rehab.

But this isn't working out right now.

fuck.

 

Lay off the herb a little bit, when you're in high school it's the best thing IMO. If they say that you're a "fuckup" then you might be smoking too much. Just don't let it affect you're school work, if it is, then maybe think about quitting until college or until your grades come up. I was a bit of a burnout in highschool and wish I hadn't smoked so much, it held me up from doing other stuff.

 

You don't have to change your ways, you can still drink/smoke/amp yourself to bliss everynight while you sit alone holding onto the thing you traded friendship and family for.

 

wow...that's depressing to think about dude

 

yeah that shit really is depressing, sometimes i feel like that's the case with me. i'm a fuck up. nah fuck that. i love my life and what i do. my family got their own lives and when family events happen i'm gonna be there and if i can't i would have to have a good reason. so fuck feeling depressed ya'll. change your mindstate and you'll get out of that rut. you can still smoke and drink and still live life. make the most of your time here. even if ya friends come back i'm sure they might drink and chill with you. they might do the same things you do but you can do what they are doing plus more. but whatever. just think differently and you'll be good.

 

sounds like another case of a kid thinking that she owns her parents and that she can do whatever she wants, what do you think its cool to do coke and drink when you are 15? sounds like you are just trying to show you are older and more mature but you're just making youself look stupid by talking like a 40year old alcoholic.

you need to grow up for real and take responsiblitiy, you won't always have someone to wipe your ass for you

 

True so fucking true

 

sign of the times man.

don't become a druggy before your even 16... i think it takes a long while for a person to get their head clear about life during the teens... and taking drugs all the time when your also trying to figure life out spells disaster.

 

What the fuck are you doing?

 

Then expect these problems you dealin with now to only continue. Chances are they will also get worse.

Sometimes you have to change your lifestyle even if you dont want to. Shit happens, learn from it. Bud will always be there man. Do what you gotta do first.

 

If someone is 15 and doing cocaine on a regular basis, then rehab is the right choice for them.

 

I never said it wasn't my fault
or anything like that...

I don't even do coke a lot.

And when I do it's not to be "cool",
a lot f my friends don't even know about it which is why it suck that my really good friends are getting sent away since now I won't have anyone to talk to about shit like that.

Anyway I'm not addicted to coke, and not really addicted to alcohol, I guess yu could say I'm addicted to weed but I don't think that's a reason to go to rehab.

How am I talking like a 40 yr old alcoholic???
Dude my best friends are getting sent away to rehab and it sucks ass but I don't get how that makes me sound like I'm trying to sound older.

 

drugs really aren't everything you need to be thinking about. sure, smoke some weed and drink here and there, it wont make you a crazy druggy, don't listen to other people if they don't know what the fuck your doing..but please stop doing coke for the sake of your own life.(unless you think it's worth it, then go right ahead)

stop thinking so much about it. just stop doing the hard drugs and life will be much easier. not only save you money/pollution to your body, but saves you hardship to deal with in the future. it's your body, your life, your choice. not anybody elses.

 

^ Yeah, I guess you're right,
I mean I don't even do coke that much I don't know where everyone got that idea?

I never said I do coke a lot.

My friend who does coke is getting sent to rehab but that's a different story, I was talking more abut the ones getting sent there for weed/alcohol

I usually just smoke weed and drink.

I'm just scared when they come back they're going to be completely different and straight edge and all that shit.

But I guess I do need to cut down a little on smoking since I've been doing shitty at school.

 

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=281032

Your trying to smoke crack dude.

 

^WOW, that just kinda summed up this whole thread right there.

Obviously you have a few more problems than worrying about how your friends are going to act when they come back.

 

your friends aren't gonna die from smoking pot.. but if they're doing hard drugs, what would you rather, them to OD - or fuck themselves up for the rest of their lives (so basically, either way, you lose them) or them to go to rehab for a little bit and get your friends back?

my best friend ODed.. I've known several people who just fucking DIED and would have much rather seen them go to rehab..

but then again.. going to rehab for a smoking habit is ridiculous.

if you're an alcoholic or using hard drugs.. just go.. unless you have enough strenght to get out of the circle yourself.. but most hard drug users have no strenght.. it's sad.

 

Crack?! Forget "too young", no one should ever be doing that stuff. I've never hit a girl, and never would, but if you were my little sister I'd slap the shit outta you. You need to wake the fuck up before 10 years have gone by, you have hepatitis, a heroin habit, and you're out on the street sucking cock without a rubber for $20 a nut. That's what happened to my older sister before she cleaned up (she's still on the methadone...), and I'd give anything to stop it from happening to another person, especially a 15 year old kid. :banghead:

GROW UP and hopefully your friends do change, because it sounds like you need a change yourself.

 

walk away from it all for 6 months see what you feel like

 

dude if your freinds are real addicts and in rehab then they will relapse most likely within the first week. I relapsed the first day out of rehab...