so for over a year i have not had a guy go down on me. when i first started dating my ex he went down for like five seconds. so i got it in my head that maybe i didn't smell good or something. i mean my previous boyfriend loved going down on me, but he was the first down there. so last night this guy i've been dating ripped off my pants and went down there...at first <--that was me, but after a while of him being down there i wondered if maybe nothing was wrong with what i smell/look like. now, it feels reallllllly good and my leg starts to shake, but i've never gotten an orgasm. Im thinking maybe me always making them stop might be my problem im not really sure.
Wait, what was the question? Nothing is wrong with what you smell or look like. Guys like vaginas! I mean, straight guys do. Any guy who would be interested in going down on you most likely knows what a vagina smells and tastes like already. But it's really hard for a lot of girls to cum just from cunnilingus - particularly if it's from a guy, because guys tend to not do it right. And when we can cum, sometimes it takes an awfully long time. (But it's worth it!) I don't know if you're asking for advice or just randomly venting (either is cool), but if I were gonna give advice it would be to try to be less self-conscious about what you're like down there, and let him stay down there for ages. Hell, tell him before hand: "I've gotten you off with my mouth before and I'd like to try getting off from your mouth - so brace yourself, because this could take a while but it'll be worth it because I'll be more likely to go down on you in the future."
